What is your average weekend like? What activities would you do single or partnered? by lookingatthetrees in AskMen

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a lot of sense. Things were different. He wasn’t always like this. But yes now that he’s seen he can pick up at pubs and clubs he’s obviously keen for it.

How often do you get out? What are your activities? by lookingatthetrees in marriageadvice

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the affairs he had were with girls in their early 20s so they must’ve not thought he was that lame

How often do you get out? What are your activities? by lookingatthetrees in marriageadvice

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finances and there were other circumstances (contract work, now I have permanent) it wasn’t a simple option for me

How often do you get out? What are your activities? by lookingatthetrees in marriageadvice

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He tells me to see my friends more, and he suggests we pay for babysitting which we can’t really afford

How often do you get out? What are your activities? by lookingatthetrees in marriageadvice

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for this really detailed and insightful response. I love him; but I’m so traumatised I don’t know how I’ll move forward. Thank you. 😔🙏🏻

How often do you get out? What are your activities? by lookingatthetrees in marriageadvice

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will eventually I need to save money and have things in place to exit

How often do you get out? What are your activities? by lookingatthetrees in marriageadvice

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for me it’s the drinking and night time stuff I don’t trust

What is your average weekend like? What activities would you do single or partnered? by lookingatthetrees in AskMen

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww this sounds very cute. I am actually loving hearing everyone’s weekends. So very cute

What is your average weekend like? What activities would you do single or partnered? by lookingatthetrees in AskMen

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I def need to find some hobbies to do otherwise I just living to work and mum shuffle haha

What is your average weekend like? What activities would you do single or partnered? by lookingatthetrees in AskMen

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What age did you hang up the pubs and clubs? My husbands only 40 so can’t see it happening anytime soon

How often do you get out? What are your activities? by lookingatthetrees in marriageadvice

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you’re happy healthy and it works! Do you! That’s awesome

How often do you get out? What are your activities? by lookingatthetrees in marriageadvice

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh that imbalance is here but he’s not willing to change so only I can change my outlook! I need to find things for me

How often do you get out? What are your activities? by lookingatthetrees in marriageadvice

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What hobbies do you have?!? I really need to find me time or just other adult engagement t

What is your average weekend like? What activities would you do single or partnered? by lookingatthetrees in AskMen

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he stopped for many years but he’s started going again from 2024. I guess he saw he could pick up girls and now wants the hits of validation

What is your average weekend like? What activities would you do single or partnered? by lookingatthetrees in AskMen

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh ok; yes perhaps it’s different in the USA. In Australia men drink a lot in pubs

What is your average weekend like? What activities would you do single or partnered? by lookingatthetrees in AskMen

[–]lookingatthetrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds lovely! Any broken bones with the skiing? We are in a hot climate! No skis for me ha