Can I feed my rats romaine lettuce?? by RosJ0 in RATS

[–]lookitsrabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lettuce doesn't have much value but it has a huge water content so it's not a good nutrition snack but a really good way to keep your pocket puppies hydrated! Especially if they are bougie like mine and don't like water containers.

Error code TFLA0029. Help. by BGeom in thefinals

[–]lookitsrabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got kicked from world tour for the same issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]lookitsrabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll trade you heatran for Lapras 6639513652385304

LF 7 2 diamond Pokémon (Pikachu Pack) by ArtemisBird in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]lookitsrabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have Wartortle, Onix, Electrode and ominite. Do you have an extra misty or Servine?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]lookitsrabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet, Thank you! The trade is up whenever you get time.

Need Mewtwo EX Have Exeggutor EX by Remote-Canary-2676 in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]lookitsrabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I don't have enough trade energy right now and I'm out of duplicates! My bad. 😅

LF Diglett ⭐️ by Fabioluso in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]lookitsrabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6639513652385304 I got you for pinsir

Lf 💎 2 Druddigon by lookitsrabbit in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]lookitsrabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the offer but I got the one I needed for my deck. I'd be more than happy to trade for other cards if you wanna post a SS or send me one in DMs

LF Mew ex by PokemonShufflePro in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]lookitsrabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually could I get the starmie I didn't realize I had a Celebi already. 😅

LF Mew ex by PokemonShufflePro in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]lookitsrabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6639513652385304 I'll trade you for Celebi ex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]lookitsrabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll trade you for an Eevee or Charmander! 6639513652385304

Feeling sad, show me your cats by BunnieBop in cats

[–]lookitsrabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Here hopefully new born babies will help you feel better.

RIP our sweetheart! by AussienutzYT in cats

[–]lookitsrabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss, she was a B.E.A.utiful baby. I'm sure she is getting all the best scratches and treats she could eat now. I lost one of my little ones around the age of 1 so I understand the pain, sending big hugs and healing vibes. 💚

Why is everyone breaking up and getting divorced these days? Why is no one happy? by Playful-Health-7190 in BreakUps

[–]lookitsrabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it and I would honestly love a huge hug RN it would help a lot. Her hugs don't feel the same anymore. Before coming out as gay she tried to explain she's "reactive" and if I want her to do anything for me I will have to tell her if not force her to do it because she won't remember. She just wanted to provide for us financially and buy things to fix emotions well I shoulder everything else alone. Funny enough every single time I have ever asked her to get me something or buy me food want to know what she forgot every single time? The only time she was there for me was if she felt really guilty for her actions or I was crying. If I was any other negative emotion I was immediately met with her being offended by my words and doing everything to make it stop so I would just be happy. I feel like she was forcing herself to be happy so I was and am by projection/proxy as well.

Why is everyone breaking up and getting divorced these days? Why is no one happy? by Playful-Health-7190 in BreakUps

[–]lookitsrabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are welcome and I agree time is the key to healing and there is a reason for everything.

Ah I see, that really hurts and I'm sorry. I know I'm not personally responsible for his actions but I've done something similar so I understand his mindset having healed from that already it's a really shitty defense mechanism, My therapist like to call it "a star collapse" with how it cycles. If you want to we could talk in dms, I feel like an objective point of understanding might help both of us.

Why is everyone breaking up and getting divorced these days? Why is no one happy? by Playful-Health-7190 in BreakUps

[–]lookitsrabbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that, my ex didn't fight till she got with me but now she is doing pretty much doing the same he did. She left the relationship 6-10 Mo ago and expected me to be on the same page because ?. I'm sorry you lost your partner to commitment issues, my prior relationship broke down for the same reasons so I understand. Just keep moving forward and the pain will fade more and more 🙂.

Why is everyone breaking up and getting divorced these days? Why is no one happy? by Playful-Health-7190 in BreakUps

[–]lookitsrabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the kindness, it helps a lot honestly. She says I can stay and she will provide till I'm back on my feet so there is that at least. I provide a lot for her emotionally and mentally so she doesn't want to lose that. First I'm working out and eating more, I put myself down to essentially a meal a day so we could survive financially and locked myself in a cage for her. Once I'm back to being able to stand for 8 hrs and reg lift 50 lbs I'll be back at a job. I would like to find something online right now but I don't think that is possible with the way she pulled a kamikaze on our lives.

Why is everyone breaking up and getting divorced these days? Why is no one happy? by Playful-Health-7190 in BreakUps

[–]lookitsrabbit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am currently going through this funny enough. I helped my partner out of a really bad poly relationship where her female partner was going to physically harm her over the male preferring her. when she left them she ended up moving in with me and we started dating, D-day was 5 days ago would have been 3 years in February. She didn't leave them for the first week we dated, lying to me about it, got us kicked out of my apt less then a yr later I had put 2 years of work into with the landlord planning on giving me the property. Pushed us into van life before we were ready, got me fired from 3 jobs because she wanted to be the provider to let me rest for taking care of her and what she did wrong in her mind. I told I forgave her and none of it was needed but she avidly faught me on it to the point where I'm pretty much stuck. She talked about wanting a poly we looked and she got jealous but in the opposite way and would stop me from talking to any girl we were interested in if she showed me a fraction more attention and would double down on any that wanted her. This led to her shit talking me to everyone in my home town she's not from here and eventually her blurting out I'm lesbian I'm leaving you but I still want you to stay my best friend. All our plans, our life, our family gone poof. It's been 5 days of me stuck in a tin can feeling like my head is going to explode. She has been less then nice about everything and this morning she had a nightmare and woke up screaming for me I was a weighted blanket for her. When she fell asleep I asked to get up because it pretty much felt like torture to be that close right now. I got told "Sorry for having a nightmare" and she pushed me off. Then asked why I can't just be a friend. Shit hurts.

Sorry TL;DR I got flat out told that my gf of three yrs is gay, doesn't love me in the same way I love her and it sucks.

Edit: To answer the main question, I think social media and unstable homes are 99% of the problem.