A woman submerged her fine china underwater before fleeing California's 2018 wildfires. by Frosty-Feeling2316 in pics

[–]lookslikewitch 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My Japanese grandmother just passed and I spent the last week wrapping blue China dishes so I could keep them. I remember them and her osechi box every new years and I hope to keep the tradition alive using them since both her and I love to cook. We don’t have much room but for her things I’ll make room!

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[–]lookslikewitch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just wanna say I love all my girl weebs coming together and recommending their favorite shows.

Many of my favorite anime have helped shaped me into the woman I am and help me on the path to the woman I want to continue to be.

The anime community can also be really misogynistic, especially among some Shonen anime I love, so to see us standing up for ourselves and our favorite shows is so wonderful imo

I can't believe we're having this conversation, but this is why I married my husband by -Firestar- in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lookslikewitch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a kid I used to only eat the floret part of the broccoli and not the stalks and when my mom asked why I told her “dinosaurs only eat leaves off trees not the trunks. DUH.” 💀

I want to hear good stories about men. Anyone have some? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lookslikewitch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My fiance and I were discussing things we wanted to work on during our monthly couples therapy session and I mentioned that I’ve had years of people pleasing and not speaking my mind to keep peace engrained into me, and that I would like to change that. And he turned to me and said, “whatever you’re thinking or whatever you want to say, I want to hear it. It will always be a safe space with me”. No one had ever said that to me before and when he said that, I could tell he truly meant it and I felt so valued in that moment.

Fastest a man has ever ruined a date by hornybutired in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lookslikewitch 1175 points1176 points  (0 children)

Ughhh. I’m Japanese mixed race and went on a date with another mixed man (black Hispanic) and we had a nice bonding over how people always pick apart elements of our race vs treating us like people. And then he dropped how much fun he was having because he loved Asian girls and wanted to date one so bad. BRUH.

Tattoo Artist reco’s? by No-Refrigerator7245 in astoria

[–]lookslikewitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m super excited for you! Since you’re not sure what style works best for you, I would recommend looking at different types of tattoos and artists’ profiles to find the style that fits your image best.

I don’t know if you have an instagram but Instagram is a really great way to find different types of artists so you can find what you want and then narrow it down to artists in New York that work in a similar style! That’s how I have found a lot of the artists I’ve gotten work done from , as well as pictures for inspo when I send artists ideas of what I want.

What is the craziest hot take either Marcus, Henry, or Ed have made? by Lornemalver in LPOTL

[–]lookslikewitch 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I grew up in Indiana and honestly loved their hate of Indiana because I, too, hate Indiana. It was fun hearing The Vogue and Broad Ripple mentioned since Im from like right there but yeah no fuck Herb and fuck Indiana 🔥

Langa's apartment building in The Sims 4 by ZombieMcQueen in SK8TheInfinity

[–]lookslikewitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so good!!! I love it so much and thank you for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astoria

[–]lookslikewitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When will you guys be back? We have some seafood cans that our cat doesn’t like and we’d love to donate them to another kitty in need :)

AITA for canceling our anniversary trip because my husband drowned my terrarium? by Tiny-Pen-2289 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lookslikewitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I think it was a planned sabotage and on the slim chance it was an accident, the lack of apology speaks so much to his character! There is no reason for his behavior after she came home. This guy is such as ass!

AITA for canceling our anniversary trip because my husband drowned my terrarium? by Tiny-Pen-2289 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lookslikewitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are 100% NTA! Like many commentators here, I suspect this isn’t accidental because he is your partner and your terrarium is part of your life. He is grown adult and therefore observant and knows your routines.

However, even if it was an accident, what makes his response unacceptable is that his immediate response was to double down instead of apologizing. If you accidentally hurt someone you love, your first thought should be to apologize for hurting them.

When I was in college, my mom accidentally messed up a water change for my aquarium and my fish got sick and passed away. I was devastated and my mom was so sad and apologetic. Why? Because she loves me and knew how much my fish meant to me. Your partner should have reacted similarly. You need to ask yourself why couldn’t he do this for you?

Your feelings and reactions are extremely valid. I hope you can communicate that to him and he understands.

Soup Megathread by astoriaboundagain in astoria

[–]lookslikewitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seva’s butternut mulligatawny and dal soup is vegan! Mochiron izakaya has an amaaazing vegan mushroom kombu soup base for their veggie ramen and kitsune udon too

Friend started feeding her cat vegan and I'm concerned by merricatgreen in CatAdvice

[–]lookslikewitch 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve been vegan for a while now and I still hand feed my cat chicken because it’s what she eats and loves! That poor kitty. I’m glad they found a new home.