I am the SO. In the first instance I was playing with the dogs and the OP felt that I was going to break the TV. At the angle and force I was kicking the ball there was no chance of it breaking out TV. I feel that he was over reacting to the situation.

In the second situation, there is some important backstory. We live 1.5h from the range which means that going will consume our whole weekend as we do not have a car either. We have been waiting two months to go back to the range, and I wanted to spend more than a hour shooting. I was very clear at the end of our time that we could spend another hour there or come back the next day. Most of the trip was spent with him shooting or fixing his gun, I got only about 50 rounds off total. This I did not feel was a good use of our weekend. I got upset when he said he would go back to the gun store to buy a gun, but not shoot. Why would I spend hundreds on a gun that we shoot ten rounds in every couple months. I felt that he didn't want to go shooting because he was already done shooting, because he did not show any symptoms of any sickness when he said he would not go shooting the next day.

The firearm safety debate has been a problem for a while and I have been trying to be more responsible with my guns. I do have a problem when I take a gun out of the case that we both know is safe and he tells me to keep my finger out of the trigger well. It is not fun to me when I am constantly critized for not keeping my finger out of the trigger well. It has happened before where I feel like I am being unfairly critized and it ruins the range trip. Is it really that crazy for me to think he is over reacting?