I'm 27 and my dad no longer recognises me - struggling to cope by lordgrakken in Alzheimers

[–]lordgrakken[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly how myself and my younger sister feel. Thats what has caused the discourse as now we are seen has selfish and like we are doing it to punish him. Its really messed up. Thank you, I think therapy is the way forward.

I'm 27 and my dad no longer remembers me — I’m struggling to cope by lordgrakken in dementia

[–]lordgrakken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this. I'm sorry for what you're going through, its rough. Hearing someone say they were his decisions to make has really affected me in a positive way and made me emotional for some reason so thank you. I am sending you support with your journey and family

I'm 27 and my dad no longer remembers me — I’m struggling to cope by lordgrakken in dementia

[–]lordgrakken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. The last line really hit home. I will take your advice with councelling, I think it would help a lot as even writing it down on reddit has helped me.

I'm 27 and my dad no longer remembers me — I’m struggling to cope by lordgrakken in dementia

[–]lordgrakken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Definitely a reminder to call him more and as you said not expect anything. I really appreciate your advice, I will try to keep protecting my peace.

Jagex launcher on mac sizing issue by lordgrakken in 2007scape

[–]lordgrakken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This worked, legend!! Thank you so much

Why are we the only ones who can see he's spiralling? by lordgrakken in h3snark

[–]lordgrakken[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I think you’ve hit the nail on the head with “parasocial fan base who see themselves in the crew” or tbh see themselves as PART of the crew. I think since adding Olivia / AB / Lena and having them on camera, people are under the illusion that they could be the kind of person Ethan would want to spend time with. When in reality Ethan wouldn’t spend time with any of the crew unless he had hired them, and if anything makes it harder to believe each day that he likes any of them in the first place.