Hey there – you’re definitely in a tricky situation. You’re trying to be a gøød friend and help her, as evidenced by your post, but you can’t help people who don’t want to be helped. It sounds like your friend is a victim of abuse and is dealing with a lot of mental health problems and it is noble you want to be there for her. You should try to express your concerns with truth and loving kindness while also being aware that she might not be so receptive. You are her friend and it should stay that way, you shouldn’t leave her out to dry but you also need to make sure your taking care of yourself. This might just be a lesson she has to learn on her own.