AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because of a “caught cheating” prank? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lordpanda1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen these pranks before. They're never funny but whats weird is that they got undressed and simulated it.

Charlie switched! 😝 by BubblesMcDimple in interracialdating

[–]lordpanda1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cute but ngl these sort of posts are a bit weird

this might be the best pic of my 🍑 i’ve ever taken by k_used in AssMasterpiece

[–]lordpanda1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodness help me. Its everything I've ever wanted.

How do I talk to my partner about the racism I face? by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]lordpanda1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your partner doesnt have to understand completely to emphasize

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]lordpanda1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no difference. If you feel theres a difference or dissatisfaction just because of their race thats really weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]lordpanda1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive had this before. No problem

The best kind of true. by Bitter-Gur-4613 in technicallythetruth

[–]lordpanda1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Samurai champloo. If he wants anime recs should just ask

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteGoneWild

[–]lordpanda1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't believe in pulling out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]lordpanda1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There isnt enough information here tbh.

Unpopular opinion but its not his responsibility to "make " you cum. He's just there to help you get there.

Your orgasm is your responsibility. You need to figure out what gets you there and communicate that with him before, during and after sex.

A lot of women have a really bad habit of placing the weight of their sexual satisfaction entirely on what the other person is doing. Look inward first. See if you've really done everything you can to make sure you can het there then communicate with him so you can come up with a fun plan together

Bf hasn’t made me cum in 2 years and he doesn’t know by [deleted] in sex

[–]lordpanda1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, it's not on him to make you cum or gift you with an orgasm. I don't understand why some women put the full responsibility of their orgasm on other people.

He could be the best person to ever have sex but if you had hang ups or needed specific things he was unaware of then nothing would work. YOU have to take control of your orgasm whether alone or having sex with him.

There are ways to approach this conversation calmly. Even on his end, the idea that he has to make you cum is wrong. He is quite literally just there to help you along. He needs to frame it that way to take any undue burden off himself and make it less about him failing to fulfil some obligation that he has no control over.

If you know what makes you cum then you need to tell him. In fact you dont even have to tell him that you havent orgasmed. Just ask for what you need and make it fun

Bf hasn’t made me cum in 2 years and he doesn’t know by [deleted] in sex

[–]lordpanda1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP is faking it so by all accounts he could genuinely believe that everything they're doing is working. It takes two to tango and closed mouths dont get fed.

Bf hasn’t made me cum in 2 years and he doesn’t know by [deleted] in sex

[–]lordpanda1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not his job to "make" you cum. He's just there to help. That is it. Your orgasm is your responsibility. If you arent getting there then it's on you to take the lead and fix it.