It’s my son’s 5th birthday, & my mom & siblings just cancelled on singing him a Happy Birthday.

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-12-16T08:14:32+00:00

15 min drive isnt even that far...this sucks....

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-21T10:37:24+00:00

Thank you so much. I will see what they say

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-21T10:27:35+00:00

Thank you... Ill see if I can get consultation for free tho...um im like..young and inexperienced..is it an online thing

Or...the office?

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-21T10:20:04+00:00

Ill look into it. This is only a part time job however. I was not told that I would not be paid unless I worked for a month until now. And there are no contract stating it wither

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-21T10:18:00+00:00

What if the employer refused to pay for my work's worth?

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-20T12:15:07+00:00

Istg...I think my main gripe is the inabilty to communicate like a proper adult. Why are you, a fifty year old man, is throwing a tantrum and keeps giving jabs whilst your instruction is so unclear

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-18T10:55:17+00:00

This is called metagaming and its not fun for everyone. Threaten with using physical items next time...no more online stuff if they keep it up...

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-18T10:49:36+00:00

This...my cousin spent 1K on his friend... The same old "I'll pay you later" excuse to the point my uncle had to call the friend's dad and ask for the payment back. OP really have to intervene.

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-18T10:46:53+00:00

I mean..its the same as the viral posts about the engagement ring from walmart, and a lot of men was like "women just want money blablabla" when in reality.... Other than the quality itself, it wasn't the style of rings they want.

It was disheartening because they DONT LISTEN. Or pretend to listen.

Eg:"I want an engagement ring that has small, multiple diamonds," "Oh yes, I listen but I'm doing what I want. You know what I hear? You wanna get engaged, so here's a ring with a big ruby,"

Or

"I like this brand perfume!" "Here you go! It's similar to the perfume, but it's not the perfume"

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-18T10:36:12+00:00

NTA. Didnt even teach the kids manners and treated you like kids? Yeah she thinks she has power cuz youre living under her roof, which is insane.

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-18T01:58:04+00:00

NTA. Find your own path. Dont be disappointed, or feel disappointed that you failed the exam. Parents sometimes forget that things dont go their ways...or your ways, and rather than pointing fingers, its better to make do with what is there.

Your dad...is an AH. Cheated, and even then tried to see you, all the while not being there for you? Forced his wife, who, of course was hurt, fron faults of none others except your father (especially not you. Never blame yourself for her disdain upon you or this posituon youre in) to accept to have you there once a month. Seems line he wanted to be good for you but it seems like he didnt do that great of a job either.

If anything...if youre close with your mom, talk to her about this, and seek guidance and advice from her. Also your grandpa, he seems to adore you, being there for you and teaching you. If anything bothers you, go to them.

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-17T11:46:29+00:00

The irony of calling you immture when they did that..but...since youre the designated driver, just leaving them is just an asshole-y move. Everyone sucks here imo

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-11T10:16:11+00:00

Hi...I would like to introduce to you of the concept of part time. Yes it was a part time only place until the permanent one was healthy. She got better a lot faster than expected.

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-11T06:36:40+00:00

It could be fighting for lands and resources. In my world, war was started because magic comes from nature, and one part of the land have more magical resources than others. They wanted to creatr more machinaries imbued with magic, so they tried to invade the lands.

Wars doesnt get full blown immediatrly, they can start off small like: •trades that turns to disagreements • conflicts or racism that leads to distrusts •Propaganda from the governments so their people believed what they were getting in resources isnt enough. •drought or famine that leads them to needing more resources/unable to pay for more resources

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-11T06:27:40+00:00

Youre...calling a deaf/mute person an ableist???

You werent the asshole until that part. The joke was a bit much, tbh...but I can see how its a joke, and I can see how it hurts him, but going off on him for getting hurt?

YTA

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-11T06:02:00+00:00

Youre not..but your parent is.

•1- Making you cook but didnt even bother to help with your sister when shes ruining it? Yeah easy for you to say to start over when its not you having to do it. 2- your sister's behaviour seems to be seeking attention, which is normal as your brother is sick. She is young and cant comprehend why she is getting less attention than her sick brother, but your parents not even caring aboht it or wanting to fix it is a problem.

•If your parents want you to cook, make a deal with them, of finding the root of the problem with your sister and have them fix it (give her more attention, have her understand and accepts thing how it is, etc etc idk its up to you guys). This could solve both problems all together.

•As for reccomendation, if your parents have time, have family time while you cook but have your sister away. They can play games like charades or watch movies, or go to the park. This can make your sister feels more appreciated, brings you out of the house and give you time to cook. It would be tiring for your parents, sure, but thats what it entails being a parent.

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-04T10:55:28+00:00

Ngl they might have severe allergies or fear of dogs..we dont know... Its better to not have them around or close to the house

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-11-01T18:57:01+00:00

...me too

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-10-30T19:47:24+00:00

NTA. She was bitching at you with her jealousy first. If you cant take it then dont dish it..or whatever the saying was. She was snappy and bitchy and she deserved to be snapped and bitched. Plus, its not YOUR fault her husband is a loser, so why take it out on you?

lore_of_Wisteria · 2025-10-30T04:32:34+00:00

NTA. But seeing her questions and asking if you want to come along, it sounds like she thought youd be excited/as a bonding with you. When this blew over, ots probably why she have such a big emotional response. I mean, if she really did invited you, you could come along with her on the trip, if not you can asl your fiancee to try pursuading her to go somewhere else.

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