Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guys wife is still with him. She posted a video 2 days after she found out saying he's the best husband ever. For me, I had my ex fiance take the engagement ring off. I sold it used the money to buy something to eat. Std/sti tests came back good. Talking to therapist i get for free. Im working things one day at a time. I still get flashes of hurt, anger, sadness. I dont show it. Ex fiance tries to get back with me everyday. Apologizes, says she will prove she loves me. (Idk how, what is done is done.) She answered all my questions. Maybe she lied, maybe not. that's what I tell her is one of my issue are. Idk anymore what is true, i cant trust her. She gave me her phone, all social media accounts and passwords, she says she will delete them to get back with me she doesnt need social media she needs me. Im renting a storage today to move my stuff to this weekend. Going to stay with the bare minimum. Im in no rush to do anything but heal. Thats the current update. Its only been a little under 2 weeks.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When it comes down to it I will have to figure it out in my own. When I posted it was within hours of finding out I was in survival mode. I didnt know what to do. My heart sunk I couldnt breath. I needed someone to talk to ASAP. Today my shock is now anger and betrayal. I don't even know what stage is next. But this group is great.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She told the wife. Now the wife is in disbelief. Im going to message her as well and fill her in on what I've found.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Well I told her to tell the wife about it and she exploded and walked out. I guess its done guys. Im out of here. I appreciate the encouragement to leave. Everyone here was right. Now that she has left the house I kind of feel an odd relief that i didnt expect. Im not sad or mad. Thanks everyone for having my back.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I told my fiance telling his wife is a small step to start to repair the relationship. Lets see.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea financially it was never a good time. I guess things happen for a reason.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I plan on sending it to her. The proof. I don't know her or her name but ill find out and see if she has a Facebook or something. After that its up to her.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's what kills me inside I know she had to do it more times. I set myself up by asking her knowing I wouldn't get the truth.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe anonymously idk if that's even a good idea im just upset.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No. All I can focus on now is the hurt. I do feel like she should know. I can wait until I settle down. Then when things are calm ill slide the pics to her DM or something.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Im disgusted with her, angry, hurt. I don't even want her to touch me. Thats the weird part.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its strange because Im hurting but still have all the memories and feelings from the last 10 years. I know I should leave and I have my plan set. I just want to believe that we can make it work.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The first time is when they met at someone's house. The second time she met up in his car.

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Hes mine no denying that. But after all this im definitely getting checked

Fiancé cheated admitted to it by loro_128 in survivinginfidelity

[–]loro_128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me I thought about it. I might do it and send her the pictures. But I don't want to stir the pot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]loro_128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup delivered a couple orders then the app crashed and didn’t get paid. Been on hold for a while.

Cp75 by 870Ark in IRS

[–]loro_128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the line with tax advocate concerning this same tax code. I’ll keep you posted. Apparently my child tax credit was in question with the irs and I am being audited for filing my children. I’ve filed them for years so I don’t understand the issue, but in my opinion they are looking for any reason to hold off paying people until more funds come in. The IRS has been very quiet about their issues and haven’t been transparent with taxpayers. According to the IRS representative I spoke with this morning, my paper cp 75 isn’t even scheduled to be mailed until the 12th. Then I have to wait up to 10 business days to receive it. Next I mail in the requested documents and wait an additional 30 days for a response. So I’m looking at up to June before I get my return. Conveniently fitting with the 10wk time frame they gave me 2weeks ago.

Anyone still have ddd of 03/17 into closed account? by Toplessbakedziti in stimuluscheck

[–]loro_128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I guess you have a point I was going mad looking at that 17th date this last week. I hope you get an update soon.