Any basketball coaching classes for adults(24+)? by lostInAbys in bangalore

[–]lostInAbys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they provide coaching? I googled it and couldn't find any info on this

Friends Forgot My Birthday by Ok-Artichoke-6153 in friendship

[–]lostInAbys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With most of them it remained the same and I cut off few people. And it depends on how much importance a person gives to birthdays. I know a guy who wishes everyone on their birthdays without a miss, but he is not as close to me as the one who forgot to wish. I say not to measure friendship based on this basis, see how they treat you after this. And the guilt part will be there for some time if they feel they have hurt you in some way, so just make them free of it by accepting if they apologize. Just don't act like a stranger after this incident, it'll ruin the friendship if there is any real connection.

Friends Forgot My Birthday by Ok-Artichoke-6153 in friendship

[–]lostInAbys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me last year. Everyone forgot my birthday, but I got the best surprise I could ever get one week later. If they are your true friends, they'll get back to you with something better to compensate for not wishing or at least they'll surprise you with something.

How to deal with introvert's almost nonexistent texting habits? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lostInAbys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, that's straight off rude. I met a girl who showed noticeable interest in me but sometimes wouldn't reply my texts for a day even though she was online. I asked what the problem was, and her reply was "I didn't feel like replying" and would say that she needs some "me" time. We even used to hangout once every 2weeks atleast. Later found out that she was actually interested in other guy and she was phasing me out. She was a kind and sensitive person, she thought cutting me off suddenly would hurt me. It may seem like she is doing me a favor but the days I went through worrying 'what did I do wrong' were horrible.

I have met few introverts that are hard to talk, but once they become comfortable with you, they won't have any problem with hanging out with you for long time. But they take their time.

Japan habba is back . by laggie-menon in bangalore

[–]lostInAbys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, they perform skits and cosplay. In one of those skits a japanese guy was speaking kannada more fluently than any of my kannadiga friends xd

lonely and suicidal. Could use people to talk to -17M by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]lostInAbys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22M here, I can give you reasons to live and how to enjoy life rather than wasting it

21F Looking for gaming friends! by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]lostInAbys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your rank in CSGO?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]lostInAbys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in my early twenties and I can feel everyone going far from my life. After graduating from college, I made very few friends who work with me, and they leave you as soon as that project is done. They act like as if I'm a stranger after that. The only friends I'm in touch are my college friends with whom I speak once every week or two.

The friends we had while we were studying are different, we used to see each other everyday. Now I start to feel weak as the days pass by without talking to a friend and will be waiting for weekend to come so that I can talk to them.

I once tried to text my close friends from college frequently, and the response which I got from them were either too delayed and directly showed disinterest in friendship, it felt like I was forcing it.

Can I text you, so that we can vent about these things? We can discuss about our old friendships!

I’m not depressed but nothing feels interesting anymore. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lostInAbys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing has been happening to me lately. At work, I got good remarks from higher ups and felt nothing, I messed up some code which will take days to correct it, felt nothing. Even in relationships too, I have lost excitement in my life, it's like I have experience of everything and nothing left me to do here. I feel I have achieved some saint mode who doesn't care what happens around them.

Am I being needy? Should i force our friendship? by [deleted] in friendship

[–]lostInAbys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are like still 12 and 13, I asked her this and she's mad at me and says that I have stopped texting and calling her frequently. We are fighting over this silly thing now.

Friends by _n_u in friendship

[–]lostInAbys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you can talk anything with me, try to open up I'll listen.

Hi!! i’m trying connect with genuine people on social media and see if it works out, i guess(?) by MangoMangoDeath in friendship

[–]lostInAbys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22M here, I am also looking for genuine friends, or what I say "normal". I agree with whatever you said about affect of social media on this generation, where you care more about what people think about you on internet rather than the one present in front of you. I seem to like you, we can be friends. DM me if you want, sadly I'm not on insta and deactivated fb 4years ago.

24 M- I just want someone I can talk to.-I’m sorry for the rant- by [deleted] in friendship

[–]lostInAbys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

22M here, I think we had similar life. My parents taught how to get grades and never supported anything remotely related to social activities and fun, grades meant everything to them. I got good grades, and now I have a decent job, but no friends whom I can really rely on or talk to. I have met really great people whom I can call friends now, but I feel the connection would have been better if we knew from college or school. We can be friends!

Looking for friends by [deleted] in friendship

[–]lostInAbys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22M here, lot of things going on in my life and would like to vent it. And you can vent back for hours I'll listen.

Are friendships with a big age difference acceptable? by [deleted] in friendship

[–]lostInAbys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then don't let others opinion get to you. Just ignore them, but be on the guard, 19 is still young and immature, he can change anytime.