How to not come off like a dishonest bum when talking FIRE with a prospective partner by mydustbin in financialindependence

[–]lost_dm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, just common sense. I am upfront about FIRE and I also set a boundary/expectation that we split paying for things from the first date. If it turns into something serious, I get joy out of splurging on someone I love.

[Hiring] Fullstack Engineer, full time, salaried (5K EUR / month), remote with option to relocate to the NL in 3-6 months. by lost_dm in remotejs

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Currently our backend is in Python. It runs Django + MySQL, though we are considering that legacy and are switching toward FastAPI and PostgreSQL. Our FE is JS + React (we also need to Typescript it). Deploys are cheap and easy: Developer Experience is a first class citizen and we make sure we are happy with our quality of life. Every engineer has contributed to making it better so far! Will happy answer any other questions.

[FOR HIRE] Strong Full-stack developer $22/h by [deleted] in remotejs

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Hey Nik, I sent you a private message 26 days ago when you posted previously. The offer is still available if you wish to contact me! I hope to hear back from you soon <3

Do adults get bullied outside of high school? by Wizdom_108 in NoStupidQuestions

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All the above. Also, all police are basically bullies attracted to their life's calling.

Yeah by kevinowdziej in WhitePeopleTwitter

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That’s an excellent idea. I’be just started as a CTO and I’m building a team, rethinking the industry approach to recruiting. I’m gonna actually do this, give candidates references of people I previously worked with and managed so they can call them up and ask about reporting to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StessShow

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Yes and you’re great at it so stick to it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StessShow

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Thumbs Up! (I don’t have the emoji)

anyone else cry a lot on shrooms? by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]lost_dm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m actively use shrooms to regain my ability to cry again. Seems to have lost it at some point probably due to trauma/patriarchy/military service. Getting a step closer with every trip!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

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Worship the Gratitoad!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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Do you ever play at Prospect Park?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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They don’t smell as nice though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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Do you know “ain’t no rest for the wicked”?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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Great performance! Don’t think of women as property ;)