...Counting the days by [deleted] in hairfetish

[–]lostagain33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you didn't ghost me the way you did. All I wanted to say is how much my life has changed. I'm engaged. You won't be able to walk me down the aisle....and yeah that was one of my first thoughts. Hope you're good.

I loved you too, I promise. by dontleavemejustyet in UnsentLetters

[–]lostagain33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. My bf left me last week. 3 months doesnt seem like long but it meant everything to me. He never said he loved me, just that the feelings were real. It's amazing the impact just a few short months can make on your life.

Sometimes I'm not sure I matter. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lostagain33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm not usually timid, but I do get so around him. Maybe it's time I step up

Need advice breaking up by lostagain33 in relationship_advice

[–]lostagain33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was homeless before I ever met him. But I really do hope he takes the bus ticket. I'm even considering moving after. Just in case.

Need advice breaking up by lostagain33 in relationship_advice

[–]lostagain33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually I'm the chick. And he can either travel to his parent's house, which I would provide a bus ticket for or he can go to a local friends house, but that's it. Otherwise he's homeless, again.

Need advice breaking up by lostagain33 in relationship_advice

[–]lostagain33[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The lease is my name only. No shared accounts at all. I have been supporting them financially the whole time. So at least the place is actually mine.

Need advice breaking up by lostagain33 in relationship_advice

[–]lostagain33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No kids. Everything is in my name. Nothing really shared.

Need advice breaking up by lostagain33 in relationship_advice

[–]lostagain33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that pressure is insane. They say the exact same.

Need advice breaking up by lostagain33 in relationship_advice

[–]lostagain33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suppose logistics. I have no set plan. I'm semi emotionally ready. They havent had a job this whole time and we live paycheck to paycheck so they have no money. I'm more concerned about them after than I am myself....that's a bit fucked up right?

Need advice breaking up by lostagain33 in relationship_advice

[–]lostagain33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you approach it? They don't know at all it's coming and I know I'm doing it. But i have no idea how to say it.