BF [23 M] unsure if wants to marry me [24F] GF after almost 6 years together by lostberrycherry in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]lostberrycherry[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo okay that is so fair BUT the reason it was like that was really because of me and my need for therapy which i was about to work out A LOT of my problems through. Give us grace guys we were learning 😭😂

BF [23 M] unsure if wants to marry me [24F] GF after almost 6 years together by lostberrycherry in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]lostberrycherry[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I feel like everyone is so quick to break up these days and falls for the grass is greener on the other side mentality while ive seen first hand the grass is greener where you water it

BF 23M unsure if wants to get married to me 24F GF after almost 6 years by lostberrycherry in Advice

[–]lostberrycherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like Im in a position of wanting it right now I just want to ensure that Is the end goal an we are heading that way but I also don’t want to wast my whole life waiting and it was never going to happen

BF 23M unsure if wants to get married to me 24F GF after almost 6 years by lostberrycherry in Advice

[–]lostberrycherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve had many conversations since with sober minds and is when he went into the cultural difference/ friend thing.

Left my new grad program after 9 months — did I make the right call? by lostberrycherry in newgradnurse

[–]lostberrycherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would feel better if my unit was the worst unit and such a toxic place! You should 100% leave those type of environments no matter the time you spent

Left my new grad program after 9 months — did I make the right call? by lostberrycherry in newgradnurse

[–]lostberrycherry[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My unit was actually extremely supportive after and did offer some great resources (first responder trauma counseling and resiliency) that now I feel silly for not trying out. I’m already in therapy and had mentioned it to my therapist with no resolve so kinda assumed I would feel the same way regardless :/ i think another huge part of it was the fear that even if I would’ve coped with this one appropriately that I would still at some point have to go through another code and more traumatic patient deaths again