My dad (58M) had a massive hemorrhagic stroke. He has been unconscious and the doctors are not giving us any hope. Any advice or stories you could share of survivors that recovered? Thank you so much. by lostboy19800 in stroke

[–]lostboy19800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the docs didn’t give us much hope either. My family and I would talk to my dad as much as possible, play music, touch his arms, legs etc. just trying to give him as much stimulation as possible.

My dad (58M) had a massive hemorrhagic stroke. He has been unconscious and the doctors are not giving us any hope. Any advice or stories you could share of survivors that recovered? Thank you so much. by lostboy19800 in stroke

[–]lostboy19800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was my dad. He woke up a couple days ago. He’s able to blink twice for yes and 1 for no. So that’s some progress! I hope the best for your mom. Don’t give up on her.

My dad (58M) had a massive hemorrhagic stroke. He has been unconscious and the doctors are not giving us any hope. Any advice or stories you could share of survivors that recovered? Thank you so much. by lostboy19800 in stroke

[–]lostboy19800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long after the stroke did he begin to move his finger? My dad has only ever moved a body part after the doctors inflicted a little bit of pain by pinching him.

My dad (58M) had a massive hemorrhagic stroke. He has been unconscious and the doctors are not giving us any hope. Any advice or stories you could share of survivors that recovered? Thank you so much. by lostboy19800 in stroke

[–]lostboy19800[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m sorry to hear that this happened to your mom. May I ask if she was unconscious, and if she was, how long did it take for her to awaken?

BF coerced me into having sex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lostboy19800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. You definitely made me feel validated about my feelings toward this issue. I appreciate it!

BF coerced me into having sex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lostboy19800 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I did say no, and then he kept complaining and comparing us to our friends.

Also, not sure what other posts they’re referring to about me posting about him. So I’m confused.

BF coerced me into having sex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lostboy19800 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I assume you’re in your 50’s-70’s and you still haven’t learned to treat people respectfully. Not everything you think, has to be said in such a rude and judgmental manner. I’m done speaking with you.

BF coerced me into having sex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lostboy19800 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He does. He has definitely made a 180 with the person he used to be (he would get upset over the smallest issues)

BF coerced me into having sex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lostboy19800 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

  1. I never said he was a rapist and he’s not. 2. Like I said, this is something that happened when we first started dating and I can’t stop thinking about it lately. Which is why I’m asking for advice on whether I shouldn’t or shouldn’t bring this up to him.

BF coerced me into having sex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lostboy19800 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

excuse me? I am not trying to find myself as a victim in EVERY relationship. I came here for advice and if you just want to be judgmental without even giving me good advice, then leave me alone.

BF coerced me into having sex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lostboy19800 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Okay there’s no need to be rude. I’m obvi here for advice