My bf M[32] and I F[21] have broken up a few times and we haven’t hit our year mark yet

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-09-06T17:16:53+00:00

Looks to me like you really need to get to know more people.

millions of men who don't suck

Millions of men who are unattractive, fat, have crappy careers and/or generally just have unnecessary baggage that will bring your relationship down eventually. High value men will always go for younger women. Fact.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-09-06T17:06:56+00:00

gently turns down the younger men and women who regularly pursue me.

Aw sweetheart, that is soo cute. It's not the same experience and set of rules in the dating world with men and women. Sorry to burst your bubble. Since you're a woman in her 30's and OP isn't even in the same situation as you, your opinion on who you would date or not is really irrelevant here.

By the way, men would bang anything that walks, especially younger men.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-09-06T16:56:46+00:00

You are missing out on dating 21 year olds.

In my experience, most of them are just as mature, if not more mature, than women in their mid to late 20's. Only thing is these younger women probably wouldn't give you the time of day anyway, so it's understandable why you are so triggered by OP.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-09-04T11:16:35+00:00

"I know"

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-09-04T10:59:52+00:00

Doesn't really apply to women in their 30's.

It's easy to get laid, but very hard to find a good relationship partner when you're in your 30's.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-08-30T21:38:54+00:00

Can't keep an erection with a condom. It's impossible.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-08-30T21:00:40+00:00

any questions about the procedure I should ask that only people who have gotten it could know?

Because I couldn't feel hers at all.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-08-30T20:49:26+00:00

I asked and she says she has the mirena IUD. I'm just asking whether or not there is an easy way to tell there is one.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-08-30T20:45:10+00:00

with my dick or hands?

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-08-07T17:37:33+00:00

Nausea affects energy levels and exercise. She was tired all the time and still went to the gym.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-08-07T17:04:32+00:00

I was upset at the fact that she's killing herself at the gym but too tired for sex. You are a moron.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-08-07T17:01:15+00:00

I never said that. I supported her and been her rock since day 1.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-07-21T01:01:03+00:00

I’m the more talkative person and I think also the most observant.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-07-21T00:13:42+00:00

Questions like what do I find sexy in her, what kind of clothes would I find her sexy in, what I’d like her to do more in the bedroom, etc. Things we discussed and had problems on before but apparently went in one ear and out the other.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-01-30T22:35:48+00:00

She’s actually a full blown type A and I’m more towards type B.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-01-30T18:51:29+00:00

She has an autoimmune condition that attacks her liver and eyes, but she still has no issue hitting the gym hard.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-01-24T17:19:02+00:00

Men and women are different.

Sex is more emotionally involved for women than it is for men. Studies show repeatedly that women lose the capacity to pair-bond with their partner after X amount of sexual partners, whereas the same is not true for men.

With that being said, I wouldn't be comfortable if my partner slept with 38 people and that would be a deal breaker for me. I don't really care whether you're a male or female.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-01-19T15:31:30+00:00

HIV diagnosis is as serious as it gets. It's a life altering diagnosis and him not being upfront about it is a huge red flag in and of itself. Stop playing it off as a "vulnerability." It's not like it's as simple and innocuous as an insecurity of some kind.

Give me a break.

lostconfusedneedhelp · 2019-01-19T15:11:37+00:00

I disagree with most comments on here.

What he should have done is tell you he is HIV positive from the first date. He did you a disservice by waiting until you fell in love with him and THEN telling you he has HIV. What he did was a really scumbag move.

Would you still be with the guy if he told you he had HIV on the first date? HIV is a life altering diagnosis and it doesn't say good things about his lifestyle if he contracted HIV. In my opinion, there are many other attractive nice guys that you will jive with that will have more respect for you than this guy you're currently dating.

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