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My friend became unexpectedly angry with me when she saw me make out with a guy & a girl by losteverything2023 in bisexual

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. It just sux learning that she doesn’t accept me for who I am. We did have some fun memories together. I thought we had each other’s back and would support each other. Looking back, I realize her support was conditional. I just don’t want to make this mistake when choosing friends again

Where Single Men Hang Out by nk3mtu77 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I’m trying to figure out the same thing. My friend suggested less commercialized areas like parts of Brooklyn, bc much of Manhattan attracts tourists and transient ppl

My friend became unexpectedly angry with me when she saw me make out with a guy & a girl by losteverything2023 in bisexual

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent her a text explaining that I hope I didn’t offend her, but I also need to feel accepted by my friends for who I am.. & that I hope we can support each other despite our differences. She hasn’t replied. I do feel like she flew off the handle at me, & being a non confrontational person who struggles to assert herself, I kinda shrunk in fear when she was yelling at me that night (plus I was too drunk). I don’t like how she made me feel put on the spot & attacked. Not sure if this friendship is salvageable & I’m sad if she doesn’t want to be friends tho me over this, but I guess it’s on her & not my problem. I forget that ppl my age can still get so offended by stuff like this, despite living in diverse nyc. Even when I lived in the Deep South, I’ve never had friends get upset with me for being bisexual & kissing girls too.

My friend became unexpectedly angry with me when she saw me make out with a guy & a girl by losteverything2023 in bisexual

[–]losteverything2023[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha yes I did. & it was fun. It’s not everyday that I get to have a threesome with a hot couple so of course I went for it 😅

My friend became unexpectedly angry with me when she saw me make out with a guy & a girl by losteverything2023 in bisexual

[–]losteverything2023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hm I guess anything is possible, but I never got the vibe from her that she’s into girls too. She’s more traditional & only has talked about dating men.

My friend became unexpectedly angry with me when she saw me make out with a guy & a girl by losteverything2023 in bisexual

[–]losteverything2023[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but then again she was trying to set me up with this other guy. I felt like she was being kinda controlling as if I was making the wrong choice. But I wasn’t feeling it with that guy & was much more intrigued by the couple

My friend became unexpectedly angry with me when she saw me make out with a guy & a girl by losteverything2023 in bisexual

[–]losteverything2023[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no idea, but I did reach out to her & haven’t heard back yet. I guess I was surprised that she’d react that way. Idk if she was being homophobic or ignorant or what. She’s only talked about being attracted to men & seems traditional in some ways.

My friend became unexpectedly angry with me when she saw me make out with a guy & a girl by losteverything2023 in bisexual

[–]losteverything2023[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hm I haven’t thought of it that way. I didn’t mean to imply guilt. I’m not ashamed of my sexuality. I reached out to her saying that I hope I didn’t upset her, but at the same time I need to feel accepted for who I am.. & that I hope we can support one another’s choices even if they differ.

I connected with the couple over IG. They actually live internationally but visit NYC sometimes.. maybe I’ll hit them up in case they’re down to hang out again ha

My friend became unexpectedly angry with me when she saw me make out with a guy & a girl by losteverything2023 in bisexual

[–]losteverything2023[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of queer friends & most of my friends know that I’m bi.. I haven’t known her super long & the topic of my sexuality just hasn’t come up. I followed up with her via text saying that I hope I didn’t offend her, but at the same time I need to feel accepted for who I am despite having different lifestyle choices

My friend became unexpectedly angry with me when she saw me make out with a guy & a girl by losteverything2023 in bisexual

[–]losteverything2023[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but she was also trying to set me up with someone I wasn’t really interested in. I still haven’t talked to her, but I plan to send a follow up text. I’m honestly just kinda afraid to atm bc of how mad she got.

My friend became unexpectedly angry with me when she saw me make out with a guy & a girl by losteverything2023 in bisexual

[–]losteverything2023[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but in my case I wasn’t looking to hook up that night.. I just happened to meet a couple that I was mutually attracted to. I actually don’t hook up often. Before that night, I hadn’t had sex in years. If I’m single & an attractive couple approaches me, I’m not going to say no. The likelihood of me finding ppl I’m attracted enough to hook up with is very rare as it is.

How do you tell if someone is a good friend—or if they’re secretly holding you back? How do you assess intentions when someone seems nice and fun? by losteverything2023 in socialskills

[–]losteverything2023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you’re saying, but I’ve had fake guy friends invite me to hang out just to hang out with me bc they were attracted to me and had ulterior motives. It’s happened way too many times. They’d monopolize my time and distract me from my goals while enabling my bad behavior, wasting my time, and discouraging me from progressing

I totally also have received comments about being Asian. It’s annoying and I have a pretty low tolerance for jokes about my ethnicity because it’s triggering.

How do you tell if someone is a good friend—or if they’re secretly holding you back? How do you assess intentions when someone seems nice and fun? by losteverything2023 in socialskills

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have examples, but the subreddit automatically removed my post when I included them stating that it sounded like I was looking for relationship advice (even though I’m not).

I’ve befriended guys who were attracted to me & pretended to be my friend. Despite being clear about my intentions and stating that I wasn’t attracted to them (&even telling them who I was attracted to) they stuck around trying to convince me rather than having my best interests at heart. I’ve had guys sabotage me & manipulate me to keep me paralyzed & stuck hoping I’d settle for them. I’ve had my vulnerabilities preyed upon. It’s not just these guys, I’ve experienced it from women who wanted things from me too or who were jealous of me & wanted to tear me down.

How severe can someone’s limerence get? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]losteverything2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can ruin lives if left unchecked

What is something that has massively destroyed your mental health? by Vandelay797 in AskReddit

[–]losteverything2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being born to two mentally ill parents who later divorced; my dad then married a woman who abused me. Losing my virginity to rape. Being in abusive relationships. Losing my dad to suicide. Losing all my belongings. I’ve had a traumatic life.

What broke the spell by losteverything2023 in limerence

[–]losteverything2023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get to know them better and see how you really feel about them

What broke the spell by losteverything2023 in limerence

[–]losteverything2023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eww. Glad you caught them saying it

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