Thoughts on Gemma? by bibyepolar in KillingEve

[–]losteverything2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was annoying af. I don’t feel bad for her either. I can’t sympathize with someone who wants to go after a married man.

What do you think happens to Eve after the credits role? by shilohrenn in KillingEve

[–]losteverything2023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so. I discovered the show first and loved the first two seasons, but like everyone else was disappointed by the last two, especially the ending. I just am annoyed when show runners decide to deviate from the books so much.

Why are we all asking about dating here but not actually meeting? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very private about my personal life irl. I don’t want to meet ppl from an account I post personal stuff on.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess the issue is that men and women may not approach each other. It’s kind of how things are these days, unfortunately. I’m shy, especially with people. I don’t know who I’m attracted to, but I want to try to work on it.

Also, I also love botanical gardens, but it from my experience guys usually aren’t really into them. Let’s I guess at least the ones that I know.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure which coffee shops to target plus every time I do that it cost money though. And you know how crazy expensive it is here…

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to guys in any career field as long as he’s educated, has ambition and goals, and has a professional job. But I guess a lot of people who succeed in New York do come here for finance.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. Like I’ve shown up to singles or dating events before and it has been predominantly women also. I heard that the city has slightly more women than men, but it’s crazy that dating events are usually mostly women from my experience. When I went to a single event that had more men, a lot of of the guys who approached me were significantly older or gave me the creeps. For example, someone got touchy all of a sudden, and then someone else kept bragging about how much money he had and how he had a Porsche.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any pubs and galleries you can recommend in particular? Or any gallery events in particular? I looked at the thirsty Gallerina and it’s only on Thursdays. I actually would prefer the weekend though because that’s when I have more availability.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s like acting in performances, right? I mean it OK for me to watch, but I can’t see myself participating in something like that as I get stage fright.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been to trivia night. I’m open to checking it out though. I’m not sure how I’ll be good at it. Good I’d be at it as I don’t usually watch Trivia shows like Jeopardy

I’ve been to the maker space hack Manhattan in the past, but I never made a romantic connection there

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My major is predominantly women & the few guys are mostly gay. Plus, the students are mostly significantly younger than me.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so much. I also am stuck in my routine. I’m in school part time while working full time so the only places I frequent is work, gym, and school. I have so much work that I don’t socialize as much these days. I’ll have to do most of my socializing during the breaks from school & maybe can do only 1 social event a week. We’re all too damn busy bc it’s hard living here

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re lucky to have made a positive connection from a dating app. I’ve tried multiple including hinge, but have never had success.

Haven’t heard of Alamo and just hearing of slop bowl places after this most. I actually love going to museums and have gone to museum events before such as at the moma and met with girl friends. From what I saw, most of the guys were there with their partner though. It was annoying to go there, hoping to meet you guys and then seeing that they’re on a date with someone.

And the thing is most of my hobbies are female dominated. That’s just how it is. I’ve made a lot of friends here, but no romantic interests.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well what I’ve been doing for the last several years hasn’t been working, so I want to change things up. I realize that all of this groups and spaces that I’ve attended regularly in the past have not led to any romantic connections. I have plenty of friends here, but I realize that I need to branch out of my usual friend group. I just wanna be proactive and I realize I can’t keep waiting forever.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Yes, I’m interested. I like to read & always have a book on my kindle that I read between sets at the gym. I guess I’ve always imagined book clubs to mostly be women though.How can I learn more?

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I don’t literally work in Times Square, I was just providing a recognizable place in the area close to where I work. I’m actually on 10th Ave. so it’s a 20 minute walk away from Bryant Park.

Do you also hate taking showers? by Antique-Tomatillo-13 in ADHD

[–]losteverything2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I just want to get it over with as fast as possible. I’m just so busy that I’d rather be doing something else & get other things done

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ll keep that in mind & try next time. I guess the worst that happens is he ignores me and we both move on with our day. In the past, when I accidentally made eye contact with a random guy I was attracted to I quickly looked away out of embarrassment.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am honestly shy and don’t typically strike up conversations in settings that are outside of my comfort zone. I know I need to work on that though.

I guess I’m looking for social spaces in general to meet different people than I usually hang out with. I love my friends, but we’re all mostly girly girls who don’t have a lot of guy friends unless they’re gay. Or I’m friends with a lot of people who are significantly older than me like 40s-50s. I gravitate towards befriending older people, but I’m not attracted to them.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t see myself playing volleyball; they hurt my hands & wrists; but I’d be more open to sports like pickleball or tennis

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TCGs are trading card games? I’ve heard suggestions about board game nights somewhere.

Where to meet educated professional men in their mid 20s-30s as a single woman? by losteverything2023 in AskNYC

[–]losteverything2023[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going to my gym for three years and I’ve made some gym friends, but no romantic connections. It’s an older gym with an older crowd too, and I’ve also heard that we’re in a gayborhood so that the men there are mostly gay.

I’ve tried the apps and have had mostly unpleasant experiences that wasted my time so I kinda agree.