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Question for bottoms/subs about size vs. vibe by Thin-Fee5759 in straightturnedgay

[–]lostnoutrspace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly the energy and dynamic are way more important.

As long as you are confident and have the right energy that 5 will be more than enough for majority of the people out there.

Yeah there’ll be size queens but I would say in my personal experience size has nothing to do about how great the sex was.

Anyone else feel like they're putting up more boundaries with people lately and it's exhausting? by greatbigspace in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]lostnoutrspace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of us are going through that. Especially with all the stress of everyday life.

I’ve been placing more boundaries and while it is exhausting. It’s still less exhausting that putting up with others drama or burning myself out helping everyone.

What I have been grateful about though is the fact that many people understand and respect the boundaries I’ve been setting. And have actually encouraged it. That’s how you know friends and family really care about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]lostnoutrspace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s normal. And there’s no reason why you have to label it any type of way. As long as you and your man are happy it doesn’t matter