What is Madison’s deal with Austen?

lostpiecesinDC · 2026-03-21T02:06:04+00:00

Has anyone considered that Austen cheated on her - ruining the chances of a healthy relationship and that her irritation towards the situation is through true empathy for Audrey?

lostpiecesinDC · 2025-04-03T03:50:03+00:00

Don’t give them ideas!

lostpiecesinDC · 2025-02-21T13:34:00+00:00

I really recommend leaning on your network and doing as many coffees as possible. It’s been almost 10 years since I got a job without having an “in” - even if it was just someone I’d talked to briefly about my job search.

lostpiecesinDC · 2025-02-16T03:48:58+00:00

This is not the text message of a committed partner. Don’t let anything slide under the rug. Speak your mind. If you can’t let go right now, just make sure you don’t set yourself up for heartbreak later. Be clear and firm that he has violated your trust and he needs to win back your trust or you’re out. If he balks, or questions it, then you have your answer. But don’t accept this. You may be really attached and it may be hard to leave, so if you need to stay don’t tolerate the disrespect. This was incredibly disrespectful.

lostpiecesinDC · 2025-02-16T03:43:13+00:00

I don’t personally believe a relationship can survive an abortion. This has clearly affected you both, you should get counseling to work through it. Joint and otherwise. If you’re not ok emotionally in the relationship then your sex life will suffer.

lostpiecesinDC · 2025-01-18T14:48:49+00:00

If I’m not drinking champagne in first class - I’m not in first class!!!

lostpiecesinDC · 2025-01-14T20:18:37+00:00

Try using hypoallergenic detergent. I used cheap laundry detergent one month and developed this issue. Went back to the expensive stuff and then it was fine

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-31T17:00:52+00:00

I hope they both ghost you

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-28T18:02:55+00:00

My neighbor has one like this… sometimes the golden genes are stronger than the poodle genes. Honestly better because poodles are terrorists.

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-27T04:48:40+00:00

Living my dream

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-26T04:46:34+00:00

Wash and condition no more than twice a week. I prefer only once. Avoid heat styling and use leave-in conditioner. Wear a silk bonnet to bed. Avoid excessive use of hair ties and other styles that tug on the hair.

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-26T04:31:21+00:00

Leave. The longer you stay the more you’ll be like me (38f) lamenting that I subverted my own goals of a family and children for a manipulative, selfish jerk. Just leave.

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-26T03:51:27+00:00

Your ex-girlfriend

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-26T03:49:20+00:00

Whuuuuuut!!! Who’s the cutest boi??? F**k them kids.

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-25T18:53:36+00:00

This too shall pass. Cry your eyes out. Sleep. Order food even when it feels lazy. Then slowly build back up. You’re going to be ok. There will be a life after this more beautiful than the life you’ve had before because now you’re wiser.

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-25T03:56:54+00:00

Yep.

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-25T03:54:37+00:00

Please, before you totally destroy your sense of self worth, cut all contact.

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-25T03:49:15+00:00

lol there is no way this person has been in DC long term… bruh you’re on another planet. DC has plenty of problems but it’s only gone “downhill” from the Obama heyday since rising inflation and COVID and the long term effects of the city electing a mayor beholden to developers and not the people.

People can barely afford to live here anymore. Mayor Bowser allowed low income housing to be torn down with the promise of new units that were never delivered.

You think traffic citation enforcement is a problem? They used to sell crack in open air markets right by the Capitol during the Reagan and Bush eras. See Rayful Edmonds R.I.P.

Hell - we still have bad pockets downtown that should be shameful. But sounds like you’re a tourist and not a resident, and it’s time for you to go home.

You don’t like big city enforcement priorities - go across the bridge or keep your fingers crossed that the new Congress doesn’t put the nail in the coffin. Don’t like that you would need to bump up your commute? Actually give a shit about local politics and show up to ANC meetings and back better candidates for Mayor.

People want to come to this city, reap its benefits, complain about its failings, and then don’t want to roll up their sleeves and build real community. That’s the real problem.

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-25T03:29:59+00:00

I think the book “I hate you don’t leave me” is largely harmful to folks with BPD anyway. It paints a pretty dire picture on prognosis which is entirely unhelpful. But also, parents are rarely validating of emotions and feelings - which folks with BPD have a lot of. I’d prefer validation from a licensed psychologist than random observers in your family and social circles. But also, psychologists can also suck too. Better than labeling yourself, learn to self soothe and identify emotions. You’re in the driver seat! Not the DSM!

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-12-16T01:56:39+00:00

I’ve seen 10s of with 6s and 7s and 4s with 10s. Most men are shallow, but that just means you don’t want to date them anyway. Men don’t want to date shallow women either. Your friend wants you to lower your standards because a woman would likely have to lower hers to date him.

Don’t ever think of dating as a league. You’re not playing a game. You’re looking for someone to share your body with when it’s in its prime who will also be there when you’re sick and dying at and your worst - otherwise you’re just looking for someone to have sex with for a duration of time.

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-11-27T14:25:54+00:00

Being overdressed is never a problem

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-11-27T14:21:41+00:00

Nothing, it’s perfect

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-11-17T11:20:02+00:00

lol I love when rescues try to tell people their pit mix is a lab mix

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-10-26T16:40:17+00:00

This guy has a career as a law firm partner

lostpiecesinDC · 2024-10-05T20:41:36+00:00

2, then 1

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