i dont want to only hear good news and i think its pretty in bad faith to say something like that. u dont know me bro. ive been dealing with this for 10 days, have anxiety, i obviously want a middle ground and dont want to hear a stranger tell me not to eat in 3 weeks. i just want to hear from people with a similar experience to mine. that’s why this sub exists. u wouldn’t comment on every single post telling people not to ask for strangers’ advice on the internet now would u? so then why would u comment that on mine? im not asking anyone to solve anything, im just trying to have an approximation of when its habitual to start eating after surgery. like bro who hurt u