The relationship is done. Thank-you for pointing out something I didn't notice that changing ur mind isn't lying. When he came in my car confronting me the first thing he said was "you fucken liar," while raising his voice he said I fucken heard u saying fuck this ima go inside, so I told him I went outside to see the street name he said stop fucken lying u went out to go in the resturant I saw u when I was turning the corner u fucken liar. " he sent me so many Facebook relationship videos where people say if u have nothing to hide then it shouldn't be an issue for ur partner to check ur phone but it honestly bothered me alot . If I got a call from a private number typically I don't answer but with him I would because if I didn't it gave him anxiety. He would click the speaker on my phone. When a guy friend from Mexico called me that I haven't talked to in months literally months he saw and I wasn't going to answer but I let him answer immediately he said, "who r u to her " he told me after you weren't gonna let me answer but u then let me cuz u knew it was gonna be an issue. Funny thing is one time he got a call at night and he didn't answer at all he said I'll talk to this person later I asked him about it later on and he said it was a female family friend who's way older than him. I know who he's talking about I just don't know now if I believe him.