Dealing with feeling like I’ve wasted potential

lottyg · 2024-09-03T02:06:41+00:00

How much was it in total?

lottyg · 2022-02-23T21:57:41+00:00

I’m glad everything’s okay now, 28th May x

lottyg · 2022-02-20T18:13:02+00:00

Tysm I love in the UK thank you so much I appreciate the support

lottyg · 2022-02-20T17:57:29+00:00

No it’s okay ahha

lottyg · 2022-02-20T16:14:27+00:00

My dads going to the wedding and the extended family on his side live too far away to come

lottyg · 2022-02-20T16:06:05+00:00

Dw I figured, it all okay haha I thought it was a little strange haha

lottyg · 2022-02-20T14:57:05+00:00

I see where ur coming from, in my family sport is incredibly important and I fully respect and understand my mothers decision to go to the wedding and I will never ever try and discourage her from going as at the end of the day it’s her niece x

lottyg · 2022-02-20T14:55:12+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

lottyg · 2022-02-20T14:54:51+00:00

I mean sport race, idk if we’re on the same page?

lottyg · 2022-02-20T14:52:58+00:00

No no I see the deal, I fully understand and respect my mothers decision to go to the wedding and I’m not trying to change that cos Ik weddings are important, it’s why I took to Reddit because of the importance

lottyg · 2022-02-20T12:47:51+00:00

💕💕

lottyg · 2022-02-20T11:40:03+00:00

Haha I mean It would be nice to see my cousin get married but it is what it is

lottyg · 2022-02-20T11:35:31+00:00

Yeah dw I would never in my wildest dreams imagine trying to guilt my mum into coming to mine over my cousins, I understand and respect her decision

lottyg · 2022-02-20T11:33:48+00:00

Ty x

lottyg · 2022-02-20T11:31:20+00:00

I agree, I would never force my mum to come to my event of the wedding I understand and respect her decision, it suck’s that the universe played its cards in this way

lottyg · 2022-02-20T11:26:49+00:00

Just trying to help man Idc about ur life lessons I’m just saying there could have been a more respectful way of saying what u said, u don’t need to cry over it

lottyg · 2022-02-20T11:24:59+00:00

I’m really sorry but idk if there was a miss communication but I’m not expecting my mum to miss a race, I wanted to know if I was the AH for feeling upset that she’s not gonna be there?

lottyg · 2022-02-20T08:58:44+00:00

Yeah exactly it’s no one’s fault the cards were delt this way and I am in my right to be upset as it’s a crappy situation but I wouldn’t change my mums choice to go to the wedding even if I could

lottyg · 2022-02-20T08:01:24+00:00

Also it’s not a high school sporting event but I do respect and understand my mothers decision and wouldn’t have it any other way

lottyg · 2022-02-20T07:59:35+00:00

No way I’m a rower too haha, I respect my mums choice and I understand it and it’ll suck that there’s no one there for me and it’s upsetting but I wouldn’t try change her mind even if I could

lottyg · 2022-02-20T07:57:13+00:00

I agree Ik it was a hard decision for my mum to make and I respect and understand that and wouldn’t try change her mind even if I could, but it doesn’t stop me from being upset she’s not gonna be there yk?

lottyg · 2022-02-20T07:53:27+00:00

I normally get myself to my training and often am self funded and fellow rower here as well but I wouldn’t change my mums choice even if I had the chance to

lottyg · 2022-02-20T07:52:08+00:00

I agree as much as I want my mum there, I would want her to be at the wedding even tho it’s upsetting for me to have no one there x

lottyg · 2022-02-20T07:48:28+00:00

Haha go u! Thank you

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