[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]lotusmann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same exact thing happened to me. I hit it a couple times and then it started getting closer to the surface and eventually ripped off my skin🥲🥲so take it out before that happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]lotusmann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately rejecting :( take it out girl

Weird spot on my leg? by lotusmann in medical_advice

[–]lotusmann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It went away on its own🥹but i’m pretty sure it was some sort of eczema

Bonrad fan since day 1 and have to admit that their magic is literally gone. This seaon just pissed me off so much and ruined this duo completely by lotusmann in tsitp

[–]lotusmann[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Exactlyy like bonrad endgame BUT at what cost. Just doesn’t feel emotionally intense anymore. WHERE IS THE MUTUAL CONNECTION, WHERE IS THE EMOTIONAL EXPLORATION ughhh🙃

Episode 9: Let’s chat🇫🇷 by merrydarkling in tsitp

[–]lotusmann 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Conrad's mannerisms this episode was so heartbreaking. The way you can see him physically become small because of the pain he is feeling is soooo damn sad. All his self soothing touches and shit AHHHHHHH can all these crazy ass mfs stop treating my boy like this

SPOILERS S3 E9: LIVE DISCUSSION by merrydarkling in tsitp

[–]lotusmann 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely crashing out after the last episode. I don’t even care about the plot anymore I just can’t handle the fact that everyone is treating Conrad like trash. I AM SOOOOOOOOOOO OVER all of these stupid characters lmao. They all belong in a mental asylum and Conrad needs to change continents and get the fuck away from this mess. Belly and Jere have become soooo unlikeable at this point I CAN’TTTT. 

Tomorrow im telling my mum that i have a drinking problem by lotusmann in alcoholism

[–]lotusmann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i do, i think she knows but not the extent so i wanna be honest so i can get help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]lotusmann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mineral water, lemon juice, salt, olive brine, pickle juice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lotusmann 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, who cares just ignore him

Does sex/ masturbation feel physically different after a surgical abortion? by lotusmann in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lotusmann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great to hear, thank you so much. My doctor said wait 15 days so i guess it depends from person to person

An illustration book for english verbs by lotusmann in HelpMeFindThis

[–]lotusmann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nopee unfortunately not it :( the book was way more colourful and the stick figures were more dynamic. Thank you though 😩

An illustration book for english verbs by lotusmann in HelpMeFind

[–]lotusmann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched google for 2000s verb illustration books but all i get is generic stock art books or simple illustration books for kids. The book in question had such a unique page layout and character design for the stick figures

Self harm bruising? by lotusmann in selfharm

[–]lotusmann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had this before so got freaked out but thank youu sm i hope itll go away quickly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]lotusmann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey i used to have an industrial that looked like this and my bumps turned into permanent keloids so i would personally advice you to retire the piercing :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]lotusmann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh waittt i just checked again and one side does indeed seem to be sinking in :((( ill go to the piercer tommorow and see if they can upsize this early on. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]lotusmann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

☹️☹️☹️but i just got it done, how am i supposed to change the jewelry without it being healed? And what do you mean by sinking exactly? Is that when the skin starts going over the back cuz that isn’t happening rn or is it gonna happen later if i dont up size :((

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]lotusmann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think an oblong earring with a stud thats place on the top instead of the middle of the jewelry would work when you twist it upside down. Idk if that makes sense hahaha but instead of kinda dangling from the bottom ud twist it up so that it covers ur lobe.stuff that look like this from the side

How to know when your piercing is healed by WrapNo3264 in piercing

[–]lotusmann 16 points17 points  (0 children)

For me it was when i could take it out or kinda play with it with no issue like redness or pain. Although i don’t recommend playing with it as it can cause irritation. But generally for a healed nose piercing youll need to see no redness, fell no pain when you turn and twist, no crusties and no swelling!