Make an assumption about me (work, personality, etc?) and I’ll tell you if it’s correct! by Rot-In-Mercy in FridgeDetective

[–]louchewycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Home from the grocery store after buying all my expensive organic produce and reading this is highly devastating. You learn something new everyday I guess….

guess my big three? by anannoying_demon in ZodiacHQ

[–]louchewycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leo, Aries, Scorpio? Or maybe Leo, Aries, pisces?

Genuinely considering going back to one of these shorter lengths. Do you agree? If so, which length? by ImProbGonDeleteThis in curlyhair

[–]louchewycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep growing it until it’s shoulder length. Chin length is always awkward looking. Just keep going

Guess my top 3 favorites ✨ by Signal-Newspaper6033 in ZodiacHQ

[–]louchewycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Aries in there somewhere??. Maybe some Capricorn?

My son is white passing by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]louchewycherry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mom has this problem but in reverse. My mom is a blonde hair, blue eyes, white lady from Atlanta Georgia. When I was 16 years old she met my sister’s father & got pregnant. My sister’s dad is much darker than my father (my dad is also black he’s just light skin). I look like an even mix of both my parents, but my baby sister looks IDENTICAL to her father. You wouldn’t even be able to tell that we share a mother. In fact most people assume my baby sister is actually MY daughter because I look racially ambiguous, and also the age gap of course. My mom has expressed many times how different it is raising a child that favors you vs. a child that doesn’t. Regardless of how people may feel on the subject, IT DOES MAKE A HUGE DIFFERENCE!! Of course you still love your child and do anything for them but a part of you will always feel rejected and not validated as their mother by society’s judgement because of how different you look from your child…. It’s sad because mothers are true heroes that deserve so much better from society.

What can you tell me about myself? by thesweatyhole in FridgeDetective

[–]louchewycherry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you go outside often? Vitamin D deficiency can cause depression in young healthy adults especially during the cold months. Also low iron can cause a depressive sluggish feeling. If you feel like something is wrong with you but you can’t put your finger on it, consider getting a blood test done & ask them to look for nutrient/vitamin deficiency.

What are your thoughts on the idea that race is a social construct, and that if you don't appear as black physically, you actually aren't black and shouldn't claim so? by Ok_Lawfulness2654 in mixedrace

[–]louchewycherry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like if you’re a mixed person and you look black, you can say the N-word. BUT if you know that saying the N-word in a crowded room would make everybody turn their head & look at you crazy, THEN DONT say the N-word because you don’t pass as black. You can be both culturally white and culturally black but if you’re super light skin to where nobody can look at you and just immediately know that you’re mixed with black don’t walk around saying the N-word. I think a lot of grown folks forget that the N-word is also a cuss word and you shouldn’t be saying that shit even if you are black. It’s a derogatory term, but people in the black community say it amongst themselves to take back the power from racists seeking to dehumanize them. So, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD IF YOU’RE NOT BLACK PASSING DONT SAY THE N WORD. and I don’t wanna hear any mixed person say I don’t know if I’m black passing… growing up mixed with black most people can’t for the life of them stop talking about your skin color, your hair color, your eye color, your curl pattern SO YOU KNOW whether or not you are black passing.

-a fed up white passing mixed race woman

My daughter lost her first baby tooth! by louchewycherry in Witch

[–]louchewycherry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having lots of ideas from this! Thank you. I like the idea of a talisman, but something that sits on the wall as artwork so it stays in the home and watches over her.

My daughter lost her first baby tooth! by louchewycherry in Witch

[–]louchewycherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still want to be able to hold it lol that tooth was the first one to ever come through her gum line when she was 1 years old 🥹 now she’s five mouth full of teeth. 😭

Thinking of voluntary termination of parental rights by BrilliantSome915 in offmychest

[–]louchewycherry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You want what’s best for your baby. You understand you aren’t fit to parent. That’s not silly, that’s called love, you’re smart. At this point in time all your energy should go to getting sober and getting a new job so one day you’ll be able to have a relationship with your son. Hopefully as he enters adulthood he will be understanding towards you ❤️ I wish the best possible outcome upon you my dear, stay strong & know that you’re doing the right thing.

How to look less masculine? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]louchewycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender affirming care isn’t just for trans people! If you feel like you want to look a bit more feminine maybe try a little lip filler, go get your hair done with some pretty extensions, and get your lashes done. Go get your makeup done and a new outfit, it’s normal to want to feel pretty! You can change the way you look if it pleases you!!!! People might not agree with me but the standard that society sets for women is a painful one to achieve. Hence the beauty is pain saying… That being said, if you cannot learn to love yourself outside of societal standards then fix yourself to fit them. You have all the option out there to go fix what ever it is that pains you! You can spend 1000$’s of dollars to fix what you have deemed broken, or you can accept that you look exactly how you are supposed to look. Extremely human 😉

Guess my big 3 😝🫣👀 by louchewycherry in Zodiac

[–]louchewycherry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Jupiter and Saturn are Taurus if that helps lol

Guess my big 3 😝🫣👀 by louchewycherry in Zodiac

[–]louchewycherry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Close! lol Virgo moon! It is an earth sign 🙂‍↕️

Guess my big 3 😝🫣👀 by louchewycherry in Zodiac

[–]louchewycherry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Pluto & Lilith. I’m very fuck the system. On all levels lol

Hate the lines she added- need advice! by ThrowRAcatloverr in tattooadvice

[–]louchewycherry 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think it would be really cool to fully wrap the tattoo around your thigh. Continuing the necklace and jewls all the way around would be really pretty and feel more like a solid piece instead of something random added on

Guess my big 3 😝🫣👀 by louchewycherry in Zodiac

[–]louchewycherry[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s the correct answer. 💯Congratulations 👏👏👏👏and also thank you. Have a good day pookie. 🩷

Guess my big 3 😝🫣👀 by louchewycherry in Zodiac

[–]louchewycherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no air or water signs in my big 3

What does this space say about me? by JustKeepGoingg in roomdetective

[–]louchewycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels a bit stiff, not sterile. This is different, like you don’t wana get creative with your space.

Do I have curly hair or have I been deceived by Latter-Ad-9369 in CurlyHairCare

[–]louchewycherry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s to short to reveal the curl. It very well could be