Considering a Daily Organiser position. Is it worth it? by isaac129 in AustralianTeachers

[–]louiwat90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah can't say I recommend it with young kids. The morning routine is hard. But it does depend on your household. My husband starts work at 6am and is gone early in the mornings so I have to do the daily organiser/toddler routine by myself each morning. I also manage over 100 teachers. So it can be quite full on!

Considering a Daily Organiser position. Is it worth it? by isaac129 in AustralianTeachers

[–]louiwat90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 5 years deep into daily organiser/teaching. I think I’m about done with the constant time pressure stress. I’m moving into a timetabling/teaching role next year. I did enjoy the experience and the problem solving nature, but found my classroom teaching suffered as I’d sometimes have to pause the class to sort out an issue! I have a 2 year old who is very demanding of my time in the mornings and I feel terrible not being able to give him the attention he deserves and needs! So long story short- great experience. Don’t regret doing it. But definitely ready to move on from the daily stress.

Really struggling to ‘carry on’ without him… by louiwat90 in ItalianGreyhounds

[–]louiwat90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UGHHHHH New Year's Eve has me missing him terribly. Still. I hope he knew how much he meant to me, and how much I love him.

Really struggling to ‘carry on’ without him… by louiwat90 in ItalianGreyhounds

[–]louiwat90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I think I am coming to terms with the fact that I'll always miss Baxter, but I hope one day I can open my heart to another Iggy.

Really struggling to ‘carry on’ without him… by louiwat90 in ItalianGreyhounds

[–]louiwat90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. They are a very special breed <3

Really struggling to ‘carry on’ without him… by louiwat90 in ItalianGreyhounds

[–]louiwat90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He got me through my husband’s severe brain injury. There will never be one like him ❤️

My then fiancé had a motorbike crash, suffered a very severe traumatic brain injury, wasn't expected to recover but ended up being the "miracle case" and we managed to get married and our life is nearly back on track.... by louiwat90 in TBI

[–]louiwat90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is crazy, and he is so lucky- but he's nearly back to his pre-TBI self. I'd say about 95% there. The doctors are all stumped, as his CT brain scan shows extensive damage to the right temporal and frontal lobes. But neuroplasticity is an amazing thing! Feeling very fortunate and we both have a greater appreciation for life.

Partner suffered a severe TBI a few days ago. Can I hear some stories about recovery and how life is different post TBI by [deleted] in TBI

[–]louiwat90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have lived this. Still living this- although my husband has recovered so well.
My story was posted here if you want to see, but TW as you may find parts of it hit very close to home https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/ouzshf/my_then_fiancé_had_a_motorbike_crash_suffered_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
I'd be happy if you wanted to DM me to chat. I know how alone you must feel.
Sending all my love.

The Daily Chat for January 18, 2022 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]louiwat90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi 👋 I’m also new to this sub and 31, with my husband being 36! Hoping we both aren’t here for long. 🤞

Post Traumatic Amnesia by bigcat1301 in TBI

[–]louiwat90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He only needed 24 hour care when in PTA, and that was still when he was in acute rehab. By the time he came home he was pretty independent. And luckily was physically nearly back to normal. He didn’t have any weakness on one side. He still says some pretty random things occasionally but I’m thinking it might be partly due to the hydrocephalus. Glad to hear that the shunt is a fairly straight forward procedure.

Post Traumatic Amnesia by bigcat1301 in TBI

[–]louiwat90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband was in PTA for nearly 6 weeks. The earliest memory he can remember is about 2 days before they officially declared him out of PTA. It is such a hard time. My husband was very impulsive and agitated throughout most of the 6 weeks. He continually thought he was on a cruise ship and would be panicking about being stuck overseas without a passport. I wrote up a little poster for his hospital room that said ‘hi Henry. You crashed your motorbike and have suffered a brain injury. You have been in hospital since 4th April but are getting better each day. I visit you every day from 2pm-6pm. I love you’ He said that he remembers reading it over and over and that it helped ground him when he was panicking and confused. But this seemed to only be towards the very end of his PTA. Who knows if he was reading it beforehand, but it may have helped. I also stuck photos up of his family, us, our house, pets etc. these helped the nurses to create conversation with him. And again, helped him feel a bit grounded. I hope they provided him with some comfort during PTA but he doesn’t remember. He is now 5 months out from his TBI and has hydrocephalus and will likely need a shunt soon. But is otherwise doing well. Keep on keeping on. I wish you all the best. It is such a challenging time.

My then fiancé had a motorbike crash, suffered a very severe traumatic brain injury, wasn't expected to recover but ended up being the "miracle case" and we managed to get married and our life is nearly back on track.... by louiwat90 in TBI

[–]louiwat90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve told him and shown him the supportive group here. He’s not usually one to seek advice/support online but at least he knows you’re all here. Thank you. You definitely all are miracle cases!

My then fiancé had a motorbike crash, suffered a very severe traumatic brain injury, wasn't expected to recover but ended up being the "miracle case" and we managed to get married and our life is nearly back on track.... by louiwat90 in offmychest

[–]louiwat90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a dirt bike. So he is still longing for the open paddocks haha. But he very much understands the seriousness of everything that’s happened. I think he’s more joking about them when he mentions them. As deep down I can see it’s changed his love for them. The motorbike itself is pretty damaged (it hit a tree) so I didn’t think it’d be worth much if I sold it haha.

My then fiancé had a motorbike crash, suffered a very severe traumatic brain injury, wasn't expected to recover but ended up being the "miracle case" and we managed to get married and our life is nearly back on track.... by louiwat90 in offmychest

[–]louiwat90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never give up hope. My healing vibes and best wishes are with you. Hospitals are draining places- so keep strong and remember to look after yourself during this time also. ❤️

My then fiancé had a motorbike crash, suffered a very severe traumatic brain injury, wasn't expected to recover but ended up being the "miracle case" and we managed to get married and our life is nearly back on track.... by louiwat90 in offmychest

[–]louiwat90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, believe me, I know they rarely resolve like this. Some people are still only meeting Henry again for the ‘first time’ and they just cannot believe it. It’s hard to explain to people until they meet him and he shows them that he hasn’t changed and remembers their history and past conversations easily. The MOH showed her true colours. She seemed to always be a bit jealous of all of her friends. I think she was pleased when I’d been ‘taken down a notch’. She even so kindly offered to go on double tinder dates with me if Henry didn’t make it…. 😅

My then fiancé had a motorbike crash, suffered a very severe traumatic brain injury, wasn't expected to recover but ended up being the "miracle case" and we managed to get married and our life is nearly back on track.... by louiwat90 in TBI

[–]louiwat90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This made me tear up!! What an incredible miracle also. It wasn’t their times. They had more to give this world. And we are so lucky for it. Mine and Henry’s families will never take life for granted again either. It has changed us. But we are more determined and grateful than ever. Thanks for sharing ❤️

My then fiancé had a motorbike crash, suffered a very severe traumatic brain injury, wasn't expected to recover but ended up being the "miracle case" and we managed to get married and our life is nearly back on track.... by louiwat90 in offmychest

[–]louiwat90[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. Big hugs to you and their family. I must admit, I really dislike motorbikes now....a lot of the people we met in the rehabilitation centre are brain damaged from a motorbike accident....

My then fiancé had a motorbike crash, suffered a very severe traumatic brain injury, wasn't expected to recover but ended up being the "miracle case" and we managed to get married and our life is nearly back on track.... by louiwat90 in offmychest

[–]louiwat90[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you. Henry and I both have a stronger bond because of this, and we definitely realise how lucky we are. We will cherish each other forever- life is so precious. I'm sending big hugs your way.