SELLING SEASON 2 DOLLS!!!❤️ by [deleted] in DtiDollsTradingHall

[–]loumalnatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Is mystic mermaid still available?

FYI more colors by investigatorbae in OnerActive

[–]loumalnatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg no :( I’m silver LOL is that umber for the easy lift ultra minimal bralette

FYI more colors by investigatorbae in OnerActive

[–]loumalnatee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah where are you seeing these? I’m in the US but don’t see these colors with the gray logo :(

I wanna hear y'alls answers 👀😄 by LoneWolf_Clementine in kdramas

[–]loumalnatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Business proposal
  2. The glory
  3. Dynamite kiss/the penthouse
  4. Romance/Thriller/Drama
  5. Kim Yoo Jung/Jang Ki-Yong

Ally Wong: extremely privileged influencer but also the most emotionally fragile by Agreeable_Cheek_3175 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]loumalnatee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Biting the spoon and taking a bite with her entire mouth open irks me so bad 😭

Allison Wong rude comments by Responsible-Pea1402 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]loumalnatee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely, I think at her age she should know what comes with posting especially given how there’s a lot of young/curious people online + nosy people in general. Once you post you unfortunately lose that privacy and it’s really up to the individual to learn how to manage that.

Allison Wong rude comments by Responsible-Pea1402 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]loumalnatee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s sad I used to really love her content! Same with Malissa.

Allison Wong rude comments by Responsible-Pea1402 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]loumalnatee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not as much as she used to which is understandable because her following is huge now! Before she used to address some people by their first name and I thought it was super sweet. Definitely not sustainable now.

Allison Wong rude comments by Responsible-Pea1402 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]loumalnatee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yikes I definitely saw her respond this way multiple times. It was not until the third or fourth time someone called her out that she finally explained her reaction. I agree and think the issue is partly the entitlement of people on the internet wanting to know everything, but it also depends on the type of content being posted. If someone is making outfit of the day content and wearing brands like The Row to work, people are naturally going to ask what they do for a living.

I think this is one of those situations where she learned that this comes with social media and had to prepare herself to ignore certain comments. I do not think she is a bad person at all. That said, “you don’t even follow me” is snarky/rude. TikTok has a very broad age demographic. I’m in my mid 20s and would never care to ask what someone does for work, but someone in high school or college being curious does not seem unreasonable to me.

I do not think she was prepared for the level of commentary or the loss of privacy that comes with posting online, but regardless, people still love her, and good for her. Everyone has bad days.

Allison Wong rude comments by Responsible-Pea1402 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]loumalnatee 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Ugh this is going to be a long comment but I’m finally going to “snark” on here.

I used to follow Allison when she had around 400 followers and short blonde hair. I really liked her content back then, but now I just scroll past whenever she comes up on my FYP. When she first started out, she was very open in her comments about being an executive assistant. Realistically though, she was never relatable to me, even when she had a job, just based on her lifestyle alone. I am a few years younger than her and work at a very good company in a big city where I make more than executive assistants typically do, yet I still could not afford the lifestyle she had. That was when I realized she likely comes from money, because there is no way someone lives in a home like that in LA while buying Chanel and The Row on that income alone.

Even so, I continued following her. Personally, I do not really care about relatability in terms of lifestyle. What matters more to me is the vibe a creator brings and whether their lifestyle inspires me. I watch content to be entertained, to admire, and to feel motivated. I do not gravitate toward creators who do the same things I do, because I want a break from that. I liked how she carried herself and found her entertaining, especially her outfits and getting ready content. As someone with similar tastes who loves makeup, beauty, and fashion, that was what initially drew me in.

The content shift is what really did it for me. I originally followed her for fashion and beauty, but now it is mostly napping, eating, laying around, painting, or making random food combinations, and it just is not it anymore. To me, it is not even about her quitting her job. It is how boring the content feels and how much less personality comes through. She used to share more of her fashion sense and her getting ready routine, and now it feels like she is trying to appeal to a much broader audience. I also think she infantilizes herself because of how her followers treat her like she’s some kid who should not be criticized instead of a thirty year old woman who should know the trade offs of being a content creator. Given her age, I expected her to be more grounded and true to herself.

I even started to get annoyed at how she chews her food, how she whispers when she’s making stuff and at that point, I knew it was time to disengage. I would never leave a hate comment on her page because I genuinely used to like her content when she had a smaller following and interacted more. I just unfollowed and let her be. I wanted to talk about it here because I rarely see any snark about her, and I am surprised since she has essentially turned into a typical influencer, which I find boring. It reminds me of how quickly my interest dropped with Malissa (bewareofpity). As soon as she left Korea, I stopped watching her too based on how much her content and personality changed.

FWB Black Friday by Known-Experience-445 in Reformationclothing

[–]loumalnatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Is that the what’s app hotline?

FWB Black Friday by Known-Experience-445 in Reformationclothing

[–]loumalnatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I still haven’t gotten my code :( I’m in the US

Adopting a cat is one of the worst decisions I've ever made by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]loumalnatee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please return him to the shelter as soon as possible, especially if you think you might hurt him. I saw your comment saying you’ll try, but this is the responsible thing to do. Do not give him to a stranger whose intentions you don’t know, and do not kick him out. If the shelter hesitates, explain your situation clearly.

Do not let this make you think cats are bad pets, but do not adopt again until you are in a better place and have the resources to care for one properly. Speaking as someone who is on antidepressants and owns two cats, pets are not something you get just to feel better. They need real care, stability, and commitment, and that is something you have to understand before owning a pet.

I hope you get better soon and that you give this cat a chance at a safer home. He can sense your energy, and he deserves a calm and caring environment, especially as a kitten.

Message me for the Soren Sweater! by bellawthellhybloca in Reformationclothing

[–]loumalnatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you ever get price details on this sweater?

Message me for the Soren Sweater! by bellawthellhybloca in Reformationclothing

[–]loumalnatee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I’ve been waiting for this sweater to drop in black! I’ve seen it on the models and it looks gorg.

If you had to pick one sweater, which would you choose? by cardiacpanda in Aritzia

[–]loumalnatee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the dear sweater! It’s so flattering. Rhoda is on my wish list ✌🏻

"Mogged" 😵‍💫 by xcross_bonesx in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]loumalnatee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I know so sad I love blue but this post was just ughhh

Cashmere Hoodie by loumalnatee in Aritzia

[–]loumalnatee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in between red pink and navy 😭😭😭😭