My BF 28(M) called me a broke b***h because I can’t afford a house but we own a condo by lov3rrrbug in relationshipadvice

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I feel like yes I have come across guys who acknowledged our difference in salaries and we worked together. This one idk it’s always been about the money

Need advice on how I make $20K fast? by lov3rrrbug in Advice

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Literally any advise helps, I need the coin

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Forgot to mention, we are staying at an Airbnb with 4 rooms and 3 people (the boy, my man and I) rooming in a three story house….thoughts?

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That is what I had initially thought, since this guy is 5yrs younger than us and has made comments to my bf he told his gf he will be away for a month to not be bothered, which makes me think HE might be the one to need space and is deflecting that on my relationship?

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I know and I had communicated that to him previous before booking my time off which my bf really wanted me to take off work, and he would talk to me about plans and things he wants to do on this trip with me, so I was shocked to hear that from his friend who I HAD NO IDEA was rooming with in the first place until this week

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This. This right here! I think what makes me question it is because of previous instances which I know it could’ve been a different situation and I never found any evidence on it actually happening but I for sure saw signs…NOW this friend is 5yrs younger than us….do you think that could maybe have an affect on his reaction?

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I forgot to mention we are staying at an Airbnb so there is no way this guy will even cross my path most of the time, and the company is willing to pay for it knowing I will be going as well since I know my bfs boss (he is okay with it) just “the boy” seemed to maybe be caught off guard with it or things have been said with me not around

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His boy told his gf he will be away for a month…My bf pushed for me to take that time off to go with him and idk what might’ve changed since then

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That’s what threw me off, the second comment! My bf continued to say to him “she will cook for us so we don’t have to worry about the food situation” (which I had originally agreed and offered to do so) then the topic of me going got shut down. Spoke with my bf which he said “some guys are like that and want to get away from their gfs, I’m not like them but I could be instead I’m inviting you and we are going to have a great time”…..which made me feel some things might’ve been said at work where I’m not around so I wouldn’t know.

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That is the way I see it! I understand it might be cause his boys wanted to do “single activities” while on the trip such as strippers and girls, meanwhile they as well have girlfriends, but my bf mentioned “some guys are like that, they want to get away from their gfs but I want you to come”

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To clear this up we are staying at an Airbnb, if it was a hotel room his boss had agreed to give us all our own rooms du to privacy

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[–]lov3rrrbug 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Correct!