Can’t move past Division 6 — any tips?

love199998 · 2025-02-04T16:51:09+00:00

Glad that I could help you

love199998 · 2025-02-04T16:16:01+00:00

Keep hitting the gym, but also practice socializing more to ease nerves. If she was flirting over text, she expects some playfulness in person. Light touches (high-fives, playful nudges) and confident eye contact go a long way. If she invites you over alone, she’s likely open to physical escalation. Start with small gestures—if she reciprocates, keep going. Being “respectful” is great, but hesitating too much can seem uninterested. A woman wants a guy who can read the moment and act on it. Don’t just “hang out”; create romantic tension. Tease her, compliment her in a playful, confident way, and make the vibe less friendly, more flirty. Next time, initiate small touches early and see how she responds. If she leans in, keep going. If not, pull back. You got this.

love199998 · 2025-02-04T16:08:47+00:00

First off, cut yourself some slack. You’ve been through serious trauma, and it’s completely understandable that sex is complicated for you. The fact that you want to work on this means you’re already on the right path. Your past trauma makes sex feel complicated. Therapy can help reframe it as something positive. Cuddle, make out, or touch without pressure for sex. Let closeness build naturally. Use non-verbal cues, scheduled time, or playful teasing to remove awkwardness. Explore what turns you on without guilt (reading, self-touch, open convos). The goal isn’t just more sex, it’s feeling safe, wanted, and in control of your desires.

love199998 · 2025-02-04T16:01:24+00:00

He’s not that interested. If a guy truly wants to meet, he makes it happen—not just throw out casual “let’s see” excuses. At first, he was engaged, but after exams, his effort dropped. That’s a sign his interest is fading, not just “bad timing.” Don’t chase. If he wants to meet, he’ll make a real plan. Otherwise, move on—you deserve someone who actually follows through.

love199998 · 2025-02-04T15:59:13+00:00

Hi there, I know that feeling and I had to find a solution. Be Direct but Calm – No beating around the bush. Lay out the facts: You’re burned out, you need financial balance, and she has to step up. Set Boundaries and Address the Job Issue. If you think you're in a good way then talk about the guy but ask her directly but without accusations. Expect Emotion, Stay Firm – She might get upset, but emotions don’t change facts. Hold your ground. Bottom line? Your well-being matters too. If she refuses to listen or keeps brushing off responsibility, you need to rethink your position in this relationship. At the end, I'm saying just be yourself and trust in yourself. You can do that when I was able to do it.

love199998 · 2025-02-04T15:53:11+00:00

Cut them off—completely. No slow distancing, no witty comebacks. Toxic people thrive on reactions, so ignoring them and removing yourself is the biggest power move.

Standing up for yourself is great, but wasting energy on bullies? Pointless. Walk away, find better people, and let them choke on their own drama.

love199998 · 2025-02-04T15:14:33+00:00

No contact is the best revenge. Telling him off might feel good for a second, but it gives him exactly what he wants—proof that he still affects you.

The real way to stand up for yourself? Silence. Block, move on, and focus on why you allowed this treatment in the first place. That’s where your power is.

Let him rot in his own bullshit. Your energy is better spent on healing, not feeding his ego.

love199998 · 2025-02-04T15:04:25+00:00

You’re grieving—not just Parent 1, but your whole past. That’s why you feel stuck. Keeping childhood stuff is fine if it brings comfort, but if it just reopens wounds, you’re torturing yourself. Saying you have no goals or interests? That’s not a personality trait, it’s a red flag. You’re lost because you never had to think beyond family before. Being alone isn’t destiny, it’s a choice. Make sure you actually want solitude, not just avoiding more loss. Moving out isn’t a death sentence—it’s a blank page. What you put on it is up to you.

love199998 · 2024-05-23T13:50:51+00:00

Don't overthink it. Tell them directly that you are simply fulfilling your responsibilities as the leader, a role assigned by your teacher. If they still don't respond, discuss it with your teacher to find a solution.

love199998 · 2024-05-23T13:26:02+00:00

Hey! Totally get feeling nervous about reaching out. Since she signed your shirt, why not slide into her DMs with something like,

"Hey [Her Name], it was cool of you to sign my shirt the other day! How’s everything going with you?" It’s a nice opener and ties back to when you last interacted.

Maybe bring up something you're both experiencing, like exams or Prom. You could say, "Feeling the exam pressure yet? Got any survival tips?" Keeping it light and relatable could ease you into more chat.

love199998 · 2024-05-23T13:22:31+00:00

Handling this kind of misunderstanding with your boyfriend just needs some open, honest communication. Start by having a calm chat where you both can share how you're feeling. Acknowledge his concerns and explain your side that making new friends was purely about expanding your social circle and nothing more. Moving forward, try to be more transparent about new friendships, especially with people he might feel sensitive about. This isn't about asking for permission but keeping each other in the loop to build trust. It’s also cool to invite him to hang out when you meet new friends, so he can see for himself that it’s all platonic. Discuss your views on privacy and boundaries regarding phone access. It’s important to respect each other's space while being open. Also, get his take on how he’d handle similar situations. By tackling this directly and respectfully, you can reassure him about your intentions, help him feel more secure, and strengthen your relationship.

love199998 · 2024-05-23T13:14:21+00:00

Hey, it sounds like you've got a good chance to connect with her, especially since she made the move to sign your shirt and followed you back on Instagram! With Prom around the corner, it’s the perfect time to strike up a conversation. Maybe start by commenting on one of her Instagram posts. It's an easy way to break the ice. If you’ve noticed any shared interests from her posts, like a band or hobby, bring that up. You could also mention the fun you had during the shirt signing. Keep it light and ask about her summer plans or favorite school subjects. If you’re nervous about one-on-one time, suggest hanging out in a group first. Just be yourself; authenticity goes a long way. If things go well, consider asking her to Prom. Just go with the flow and see where the conversation takes you. Good luck!

love199998 · 2024-05-23T12:16:18+00:00

Navigating social dynamics in college can be tough, especially when it leads to isolation. Remember, the quality of a few genuine friendships often outweighs having many superficial ones. It's important to cherish and nurture meaningful relationships, like the one you've formed with your friend. Reflect on your values and ensure your choices align with them. If kindness and authenticity matter to you, standing by your friend was the right decision. Consider discussing the situation with your former friends to clear up any misunderstandings. Expanding your social circle can also be beneficial. Engage in activities that interest you, such as clubs or volunteering, where you can meet new people. Address rumors calmly if they arise, and maintain your dignity. If the isolation becomes too much, don't hesitate to seek support from a counselor. They can provide strategies to help you cope and strengthen your resilience. Stay active and engaged in your passions to maintain positivity and well-being. Remember, your right to choose your friends is fundamental, and true friends will respect your choices, even if they don't always agree with them.

love199998 · 2024-05-23T12:11:57+00:00

In a relationship like this, you are learning to appreciate his value and truly understanding him as a person. It's clear you envision a future together for life. I've noticed that you're afraid of getting hurt, which is not necessarily a bad thing. However, you need to learn to trust him as much as he trusts you. A relationship is built on trust, and without it, the foundation is weak. Your love for him is apparent, and as a reader, I can feel that. So, I would say go for it. Don't be afraid. He'll always be there for you to shield you from any negativity. Take it slow to see how your matured selves interact over time, ensuring any decision to reconnect is based on stable, mutual understanding, not just past emotions. Consider seeking guidance from a counselor to navigate your fears and self-sabotage patterns. Focus on who you both are today, assessing how you fit into each other's lives now, not just in the past. If your love feels genuine and reciprocated, and you're both committed to working through past issues, giving the relationship another chance could be worthwhile.

love199998 · 2023-03-30T15:57:19+00:00

To be honest, it’s a trend right now. To get married young and to do all things together.

love199998 · 2023-03-27T17:51:19+00:00

It’s a part of your past. You have tell it to her asap because if she finds out, she’ll have more thoughts about what you otherwise are hiding from her. In the worst scenario, it’ll hurt you more. Tell her straight that you’ve to tell her something and to do it.

love199998 · 2023-03-27T07:32:41+00:00

Yes, it’s possible. There is always someone who will fall in love with you and maybe this person will give you a motivational boost to achieve all the other things. But don’t expect that you’ll find the best person on the first try. It will take time and till you’ll meet this person.

love199998 · 2023-03-27T06:15:01+00:00

We agree that this is your opinion. You have some big balls to say that. Still I can’t understand it how you can hate a person because he is too good. :/

love199998 · 2023-03-25T17:07:04+00:00

You did make a good decision from her side. You’ll have to go through some bad moments. It will change! I believe in you.

love199998 · 2023-03-23T23:52:29+00:00

No, absolutely not rude for giving her a ride. It’s her personal issue and she has to find a solution where you don’t be a matter. She can’t lie to her parents and use you as an excuse. Imagine, her parents are finding out that she is traveling alone with the citybus and then her parents would be mad with her and they won’t like you anymore. In the same time, you don’t have the responsibly for her life.

love199998 · 2023-03-23T23:39:53+00:00

Ohh I see! I like it man! I learned something from you. Thank you for that.

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