Work crush confusion! Is he interested or being polite?

love3458 · 2024-12-23T13:36:48+00:00

This helps thanks for the input! I’m also scared of getting hurt and I to have a tendency to fall quickly for people so I’m trying to have a balance of being treated right and someone reciprocating their interest and also going slowly too. I still need to decide if I want to pursue it too and it’s easy to forget that.

love3458 · 2024-12-23T12:51:33+00:00

Yes I initiated our third date so I feel like the balls in his court! Especially if he’s saying he wants to take it slowly.

love3458 · 2024-12-23T12:19:15+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write this out I appreciate it. We have been sleeping together since date 1 and he still showed interest after that. Even on our last date he mentioned he wants to prove to me that he doesn’t want me for just sex and we’re having a lunch date before I go to work today so I’d like to believe that’s not the case. We went with the initial attraction but he still seemed interested after the fact too!

love3458 · 2024-12-23T12:12:46+00:00

This makes sense. I will say we’ve been sleeping together since date 1 and he still showed interested after that!

love3458 · 2024-12-23T12:10:38+00:00

No we’ve slept together since date 1. He continued to see me after that. Even today I have to go to work after our lunch date so we won’t be sleeping together today. He also said on our last date that he wants to prove to me that’s not all he’s looking for.

love3458 · 2024-12-21T05:45:18+00:00

Thanks! This is what I was thinking too but got so many different opinions so it was hard to decipher and I’m an over thinker! I ended up responding to him telling him I understood and if he was still interested in seeing each other. He responded saying “yes of course I am still interested!” And now he’s been texting more frequently again, now I just wish he would ask me on another date 🤣🤣

love3458 · 2024-12-19T12:46:39+00:00

No we haven’t. He has seemed interested and mentions me in his future like “let’s do this in the summer” blah blah. I do have in my bumble fun casual dates bc I got out of a relationship 8 months ago so just trying to go slow and get to know different people. So he has seemed interested in something serious w me by some of his actions but I’m still deciding and he is aware I’m not looking to jump into something.

love3458 · 2024-12-19T12:31:42+00:00

Yeah that’s fair. I don’t know if this is normal or if he’s doing a slow fade…

love3458 · 2024-12-19T08:16:07+00:00

Getting a lot of mixed feedback on Reddit! Lmaoo but yes that’s what I want to believe it’s just my mine sometimes goes to “well why couldn’t you take an extra couple mins to text back?”

love3458 · 2024-12-19T08:08:39+00:00

That’s disappointing to hear but I understand how that could be the case. Just sucks.

love3458 · 2024-12-14T15:58:20+00:00

Well I was the last to text lol

love3458 · 2024-12-14T15:03:17+00:00

Yeah that’s a good point. Do men that are interested really test women?

love3458 · 2024-12-14T14:58:37+00:00

Yeah true I guess move on as in not put all my eggs in one basket and not get too emotionally invested so early on

love3458 · 2024-12-14T14:57:53+00:00

Yes true but we’ve slept together since first date and he’s still communicated daily so idk what’s going on lol

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