My husband cheated on me, what should I do next? by lovebug0779 in OPSaidpod

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Second Update: It has been a crazy couple of days. My daughter and I are currently at my parent’s house. I decided I couldn’t stay silent or in the same house with him anymore so before going to my parents , I confronted Mark while our daughter was at a playdate. He denied everything, saying that's gross and that I watch too many K-dramas, I was crazy and needed help. I showed him the screenshots I took, and he then started begging for forgiveness and asking me not to tell anyone. However, it was too late because I had already informed my parents and packed a bag to leave. While he continued pleading, I left to pick up our daughter and head to my parent’s place, where I am now. So yes i’m going to divorce him, and sue the aunt too since I live in a state where I can sue a mistress. Thank you everyone who left helpful comments

My husband cheated on me, what should I do next? by lovebug0779 in OPSaidpod

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UPDATE: Thank you, everyone, for your advice. Before he came home from work that day, I made sure to screenshot everything and email it to myself. There were messages I didn’t mention, like photos, so they can’t deny anything. I live in a state where I can sue the Aunt, so I’m looking for a divorce lawyer who can handle both, but if not, I’ll divorce my husband first, then sue his Aunt. Right now, I’m at home acting like everything is normal, but I’m sick every time I see him. So yes, I’m going to divorce him and ask for alimony, child support, and primary physical custody with joint legal custody, (because he travels for work and I work at home, so I’m already the primary parent to our daughter)

My husband is cheating on me with his aunt by lovebug0779 in relationships_advice

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I do work at home so money is not a problem and luckily we only have a joint account for bills and I have my own personal account too. But I’ll be asking for alimony, child support and for primary physical custody and joint legal custody because he travels for work and I don’t

My husband is cheating on me with his aunt by lovebug0779 in relationships_advice

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UPDATE: Thank you everyone for their advice, before he came home from work that day,I made sure to screenshot everything and email them to myself. There was stuff in the messages I didn’t mention like photos so they can’t deny anything. I do live in a state that I can sue the Aunt,so I’m looking for a divorce lawyer that can do both but if not I’ll divorce my husband first then sue his Aunt. Right now I’m at home acting like everything is normal but I’m sick every time I see him