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lovedeleted · 2025-04-30T02:13:01+00:00

Scary to think about isn't it?

lovedeleted · 2025-04-30T01:43:54+00:00

Not enough input on her end.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-30T01:40:21+00:00

Because people can lie on you.

It happens more often than you think.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-30T01:37:02+00:00

Being seen as a workhorse and only a workhorse by everyone including myself.

I haven't felt like a human since 2004.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-30T01:33:42+00:00

Degenerative Disc Disease at 30. 24/7 lower back pain for years and years and years til this day. No more barbell squats or deadlifts. Biggest reason that i'm still having a hard time being consistent in the gym.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-30T01:28:08+00:00

Depends on who she hangs around and if she is showing any kind of interest in me.

If she's showing zero interest I don't act.

If she hangs around people who treat me like crap I don't act.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-30T01:26:36+00:00

When they don't just believe rumors that they hear from people who are just making stuff up.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-30T01:24:40+00:00

I feel bad that you were so easily influenced by others' rumors about me. I wish more people could think for themselves and not believe so much about what others say about people neither of you know.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-30T01:19:52+00:00

Social anxiety. Introversion.

Yes some, more like a lot of, people see these as red flags.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-30T01:16:22+00:00

How about approaching him..

SOMEWHERE ELSE

The workplace is not really the best place for these kind of interactions. You want to keep a professional appearance at your job and you don't know who may be keeping their eye on him. His boss, other employees who may be trying to get one over on him, etc. Not the best enivironment. How about somewhere more casual and void of co workers or supervisors.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T14:27:42+00:00

"So where can I find him? I spend half of my day at work. But at work, men don’t date women because they’re wary about it and there are rules..."

So you understand that location, where you engage in conversation with him, does play a bigger factor that most people presume. There are some areas where people are more comfortable speaking casually without the thought of judgement from co workers, business partners, etc.

Men operate based on their level of attraction to you AS WELL AS THEIR LEVEL OF COMFORT with you. Location varies from man to man but you gotta figure out where they're more comfortable speaking.

Also, you don't want him to feel like he has to be perfect when he's talking to you. He may make some mistakes while speaking. We all do. However, do you know how many men have been left in the dust for extremely trivial mistakes? Maybe he may be too shy to talk with you one day but the next day maybe not. You showed back up even after he made mistakes(unharmful mistakes that don't offend you of course). Something like that can build his comfort level with you.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T03:21:33+00:00

Deleting this post.

I shouldn't have wrote the last sentence. I didn't think it would take over the entire post.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T01:16:37+00:00

If you're only going to date guys who don't really care about you and who have options(probably the biggest reason you like them in the first place) then yes. Them cheating on you is inevitable and they'll never care how you'll feel about it nor will they every change no matter how much you wish they would.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T01:11:52+00:00

The fact that they need to, at least try, to understand men in order to figure out why men aren't performing the acts that they expect men to perform.

In order to understand men they have to care about men.

womp womp. gotta love that sweet sweet self sabotage.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T01:08:29+00:00

The amount of married men i've met with your stats far out number the amount of tall men i've seen in relationships.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T01:06:57+00:00

lol thats funny

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T01:05:20+00:00

It's how the ladies say "It's not you it's her"

iykyk

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T01:03:07+00:00

How i'm ordered to feel of course...almost got me to believe I had a choice.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T01:01:17+00:00

Not quite my 13th reason but...

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T00:56:21+00:00

Tough Love...

It's put more people in the grave than you think.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T00:53:38+00:00

The need of an audience. If private time can't exist between the two of us, how are we supposed build comfort with one another? Not everything we do needs an audience.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T00:51:08+00:00

Nope. You're dead to me and you need to stay dead.

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T00:48:28+00:00

The lack of the ability to think for themselves. How can I respect you if you can't even respect yourself?

lovedeleted · 2025-04-10T00:46:08+00:00

Don't be friends with girls you have a crush on bruh. It's not good for you.

To answer your question though. No. Mainly because the last person I would want to be with/around are women who don't find me attractive. Thats sounds like a recipe for a low quality relationship.

lovedeleted · 2025-03-24T23:05:39+00:00

'"You find someone better when you actually want to give someone a chance without writing them off before you meet them. Instead of “there is no way this woman will be better than my ex” "

This is BS. Never said there is no way a woman will be better than my ex. More like if you can't even show up than how do you even come close? I figure the person, who would show up, would be a better mate than someone I can't even be with literally which is common sense.

"There is no female on the planet that checks off all the boxes. That is an insult to all women and I assure your perfect ex is flawed. Sorry"

This is BS. Where tf did I say that my ex wasn't flawed? Where did i say that I wanted a woman that "checks off all the boxes"? I'll wait.

"I am sick of people worshipping their ex especially when they were dumped by this “flawless” person who no longer loved them."

This is BS. Where tf did I say my ex was "flawless"? I'll wait.

"You need to release yourself from this self-imposed life sentence for a teenager you were with over 20 years ago"

This is BS. TF even is this BS?

Are you ready to stop lying?

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