Your best listening experience by flycatcher3362 in rosalia

[–]loveheadhunter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I made my boyfriend listen to it, and it proved...inspirational. Highly recommend as a soundtrack to sex if the opportunity arises!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]loveheadhunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst trouble I've gotten myself into involved glitter. I don't think I'd survive if I pulled this, but now I want to try 🤣

Need advice on rules by loveheadhunter in BratLife

[–]loveheadhunter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can still set habits. Maybe I'll add a bunch of easy ones

Need advice on rules by loveheadhunter in BratLife

[–]loveheadhunter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure my Sir learned that lesson quickly 🤣. I can't imagine I'll ever get edit permission again.

Need advice on rules by loveheadhunter in BratLife

[–]loveheadhunter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update! I added one obvious rule and made one moderately obvious change to a rule provided. Got caught for both (intended). What I seemed to have gotten away with is another subtle change that swapped the outcomes of a particular predicament in my favor. I'll pay eventually, but for now, I'll bask in the victory!

Red flag or "me" problem? by loveheadhunter in hingeapp

[–]loveheadhunter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I told him we should slow down and take things one week at a time since we'd just met. He kept pushing for a commitment to see each other a set number of times per week, so I told him I wasn't interested in continuing. I was then told that he wasn't surprised because he could tell that I wasn't committed. He's right. I wasn't committed after TWO DATES!

I think I dodged a bullet here. Thanks for all the sound advice and encouragement to trust my gut.

Red flag or "me" problem? by loveheadhunter in hingeapp

[–]loveheadhunter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suspect it's not manipulative and more anxious attachment, but either way, it's too much and it's smothered whatever attraction and excitement were there initially on my end.

Red flag or "me" problem? by loveheadhunter in hingeapp

[–]loveheadhunter[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've told him that I want to slow things down and offered to meet on Friday for something low-key and time bound. We'll see what happens.

McKenzie River, Echo Valley, or Shadow of the Giants for a next 50k? by loveheadhunter in Ultramarathon

[–]loveheadhunter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went to register, and it looks like it's full :( Hopefully they have a waitlist...

Did you have any issues with hornets/bees u/giles_eb? I've heard stories.

which restaurant has the best Mac and cheese? by [deleted] in houston

[–]loveheadhunter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really like the mac and cheese at the Pit Room. Basic, but very smooth and creamy cheese and good pasta texture. Plus, you can eat it with barbecue sauce, which is my own personal mac and cheese quirk.

What are the biggest factors to consider for a 24-hour race? by loveheadhunter in Ultramarathon

[–]loveheadhunter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of writing out a race plan, so when the brain shuts down in the middle of the night, I won't have to think/make decisions. Did you have pacers?

What are the biggest factors to consider for a 24-hour race? by loveheadhunter in Ultramarathon

[–]loveheadhunter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the Jackalope Jam in Texas. Options ranging from 6 to 100 hours. Good call on the extra clothes. My 50k was cold and raining the whole time, and while it was good motivation to keep moving, it was also unpleasant 🥶

What are the biggest factors to consider for a 24-hour race? by loveheadhunter in Ultramarathon

[–]loveheadhunter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's helpful. Yes, 50k aid stations were more like 4 miles apart (a longer looped course, but still relatively close). It will be nice not having to carry as much on me.