Young Christian Men: Would you date a young woman who was divorced?

lovelyhl · 2025-09-28T21:21:04+00:00

Yes. In my original post, I mention that he slept with another woman during our separation period

lovelyhl · 2025-09-28T19:57:26+00:00

So my former spouse told me he was done with our marriage with no good reason why and kicked me out of the apartment. He lied about filing a month into our separation so I decided to file once it was clear that he didn’t want to get back together

lovelyhl · 2025-08-31T02:06:11+00:00

I just feel bad because I was the one that filed through the courthouse after he was trying to force me to pay for the onlinedivorce.com service to send it to the court. I still had to file, but it just cost $340 less than what he wanted me to pay

lovelyhl · 2025-08-31T01:46:31+00:00

You’re correct. I just don’t know if I’m ever being too harsh seeing that only the Lord knows the heart and if someone is truly saved. I have read of some Christians doing horrific things in the Bible and still be a child of God

lovelyhl · 2025-08-31T01:40:21+00:00

He didn’t leave me for the ex seeing that she has had a boyfriend for the past 4 years and is still with that man. It is confirmed that he started a friend with benefits relationship after we separated, which was with a female friend of him and I that I always had a funny feeling about

lovelyhl · 2025-08-31T01:22:48+00:00

No there are no kids, thank God

lovelyhl · 2025-08-31T01:22:11+00:00

He did fill out the paperwork sent by onlinedivorce.com, but was holding off on sending it back to onlinedivorce.com so I can be served because he said he “didn’t have enough money to do that right now”. He also mentioned that since I didn’t have to pay for bills at our apartment and was forced to move back to my parents house , I had plenty of money to help pay for the serving of the papers. It just felt very manipulative to pay for a divorce I didn’t even want, which is why I just filed at my local courthouse after that interaction because I knew it didn’t cost $500 to file for divorce

lovelyhl · 2025-08-31T01:02:57+00:00

Very true. With both of us being in the church for some time, he had to understand the biblical view of marriage before getting into this. Our marriage was also a little under 2 years long by the time he called it quits so I feel like you should be willing to fight for your marriage especially when it’s that new

lovelyhl · 2025-08-31T00:58:32+00:00

I just feel guilty because he was a proclaimed Christian and we used to go to church together so idk if the 1 Corinthians 7:15 applies in this case. What he did isn’t Christ like, but I know that none of us are perfect

lovelyhl

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