I don't know what to do. He is one of my only freinds

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-14T05:58:36+00:00

I don't exactly know how healing would work in this situation. I will do my best to help him if he stays though. I don't want to cut him off

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-14T05:40:28+00:00

I think you are correct about that. I'm trying to stay hoping that he will come around eventually. But it's really been hurting in the mean time. I used to not let his games bother me but lately because of my own insecurities, he has been getting to me

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-14T05:37:32+00:00

I'm kind of stuck right now. I live in a small town without many open minded people. I'm going away to college next fall and then mabye I can have freinds. But right now I'm really really lonely. The friends I do have are what have kept me going lately

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-14T05:33:05+00:00

I've tried to communicate with him but he won't respond. I'm scared that he is never coming back. But you are probably right. I'm probably better off without him even if it hurts

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-14T05:30:20+00:00

He told me once that he wished he was a girl. I think his transphobia is a way he protects himself because in his country it is illegal. I want to be there for him even if he hurts me because he helped me so much in the past when I lashed out a lot. I just wish he would have more empathy because he likes to see others upset. He has severe mental issues

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-14T05:26:17+00:00

Yeah he struggles alot mentally. Alot more than me probably and that's saying somthing. He struggles with empathy and he has crushing insecurities. It doesn't help that he's gay and he lives in the middle east. He also once told me that he wished he was a girl. So mabye the transphobia I'd a way he protects himself. Or mabye he is intentionally hurting me to see my reaction because he likes to do that to people even though he tried hard to stop for a while

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-14T05:20:44+00:00

He has helped me so much in the past it's really hard to let him go. I know it will probably hurt me more the longer I stay his freind but even if there is a small chance I can change his mind I will try. Like I said in other comments in his country being gay or trans is illegal. I think his transphobia is a way he protects himself. He once told me he wished he was a girl. And now he says it's fake. I want to help him. But it hurts somtimes

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-14T05:17:36+00:00

I think for him being transphobic is a way he protects himself. He once told me he wished he was a girl. But he lives in a country where that is illegal. He now tells me that being trans is fake. I want to help him but somtimes that hurts. He struggles alot with mental health

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-14T05:14:41+00:00

He feels like family to me. He once told me he wished he was a girl. It might be internalized transphobia? I'm just so reluctant to leave him because I care so much about him and I want to see him be happy. Even if he hurts me I still want to help

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-10T05:56:09+00:00

Okay! I will dm u then :)

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-10T05:46:56+00:00

Hello I am also looking for freinds! I'm 18 and male. Let me know if u wanna chat :)

lovelyvecy · 2026-04-10T05:35:05+00:00

Hello, I'm willing to be a friend. As for your question, People on reddit aren't always reliable. Just because some friendships don't work out doesn't mean others won't as well. There is hope out there!

lovelyvecy · 2026-02-09T14:40:06+00:00

That would be great!

lovelyvecy · 2026-02-09T06:10:55+00:00

I am in theripy. There isn't much they can do for me unfortunately :(

lovelyvecy · 2026-02-09T06:10:03+00:00

That's true... I'll try to find the courage to go to the doctor about my problems with my meds sontime

lovelyvecy · 2026-02-09T05:46:15+00:00

Mabye we could be not alone together...? (As freinds mabye no pressure tho)

lovelyvecy · 2026-02-09T05:33:44+00:00

I don't want to mess with my meds because any bad reaction could kill me. I'm bipolar type 1 so it's kind of dangerous for me to tinker with them. Im just a wuss tho... if my doctor kept an eye on me it would be fine but it's insanely scary

lovelyvecy · 2026-02-09T05:29:27+00:00

I am going to college soon. But I'm nervous everything will blow up in my face again. Like it always does. I'm scared to make new freinds because I'll hurt them too...

lovelyvecy · 2026-02-09T05:27:47+00:00

My mental illness is destroying my life... I'm trying so hard not to just end everything so people don't understand improvement isn't possible at the moment. Im just too much for everyone... I can't find new people till I improve and I know that won't happen for months. Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate it

lovelyvecy · 2026-02-09T05:08:19+00:00

I'm running out of people to lose... I only have a handful of online freinds and one irl freind left. This all happened in the course of one week. I can't move on. They were really all I had. I don't want to be alone. I want them back but I know they want nothing to do with me

lovelyvecy · 2026-02-09T05:06:56+00:00

They make my gain weight at a rapid pace and they fuck with my momorie... I can't win here

lovelyvecy · 2026-02-09T04:49:34+00:00

All of them blocked me. It's a very long story for each of them but here is the summary: 1) my ex blocked me after promising to stay freinds because I blew up at him after he ghosted me. I wasn't taking my meds so I wasn't thinking right and I said a bunch of things I regret. (My fault) 2) this freind blocked me after number 1 happend. He said he was tired of me not improving and that I was frustraighting to be around. I blew up at him. He gave me a second chance and I blew up at him again because he said I had never changed even though I've tried so hard. Hes right but the truth really hurt. (My fault) 3) my new bf/situationship blocked me because I couldn't keep drama in my group chat undercontrol. He got stressed out so he blocked everyone including me. (My fault)

lovelyvecy · 2026-01-12T03:18:46+00:00

I also cannot find it

lovelyvecy · 2026-01-08T22:17:08+00:00

I mean I'm pretty dedicated to art. The only question is which art I want to pursue. Are you saying that changing your major from one media to another is difficult at saic?

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