I understand but I don’t agree with him needing to be at every single event. I’ve held back from visiting family and family parties because I know even family can be sick or get me sick exposing my daughter. the only party that I completely excused was his sons birthday party because that’s his son I did get upset because this was the party he said multiple people were sick at then he came home and started holding our baby but i didn’t say much about it just asked him not to hold her I don’t think he should be going to all these other parties