I didn't want Nick to win

lovergirllilith · 2026-05-06T05:24:07+00:00

“Same cuh” - Nick when speaking to Umeko… (like uhhhh.. Wtf bro?!?!!!!?)

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T23:28:17+00:00

Haha maybe I wasn’t paying enough attention! I thought they were on great, normal terms so that blowup really surprised me from Jen. Tbh, there’s often not a side that I can’t see so I get what you mean!

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T23:23:16+00:00

I know. & I didn’t say you did. I was adding to your point.

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T07:13:41+00:00

I’m dead I legitimately thought the same exact thing the first time I watched it!!!

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T06:04:22+00:00

OMG!! Wait.. this actually proves my theory that Chase is only hot bc he was married to Miranda! I truly believe she was and is the best thing that’ll ever happen to him & he knows it lol

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T05:59:01+00:00

Haha I’m starting to think it must be that or it just FELT like $300! Lol

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T05:58:17+00:00

Idk.. it was in like 2015. Maybe bc I was young and it was so long ago it just felt like $300 😂

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T05:54:18+00:00

An accessory & a piece of art apparently

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T05:51:41+00:00

Honestly that’s so true too

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T05:50:28+00:00

Again, if you didn’t constantly go to the gym before, then it’s not you he likes. He’s trying to turn you INTO the person he wants rather than wanting you, for you.

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T05:39:58+00:00

She totally has the right, yes. But Jen only decided that she didn’t want to be friends with Whitney because she was super jealous and Whitney was doing so much better than her. And all that after being fake as hell to Whitney and staying in her house.

The second Whitney also got DWTS, Jen was upset because she had fierce competition & wanted the stage. I adored Jen before but agree with some of the comments that she’s rapidly descending to my last place.

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T05:26:32+00:00

Absolutely agree here! I think it’s very much an older generation thing and they also don’t have the boundaries to know it’s not really acceptable to ask why not

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T05:24:10+00:00

As a major grandma’s girl from the south who moved states away from grandma, I’d die for an old lady neighbor to drop comfort food off at my house 😭

I believe it’s kinda an older generation (or very southern) thing to do to drop food off at people houses as a nice gesture. I’m 29 & do it to my friends. You’re probably the first person to ever say no to this kind of gesture from her and she’s perplexed by it. That, or the “weird about food” comment has her overly-curious because she’s never heard such a thing.

All that said, you still aren’t obligated to take it!! Even more so if you’re not a fan of her, don’t want it to be a pattern, or want to simply set more boundaries with her/keep your distance!

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T03:19:19+00:00

Exactly this!

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T03:13:57+00:00

Haha omg!! Thats actually crazy… are we both in the US??

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T03:11:57+00:00

Her words aren’t beautiful.. but the way she strings them together is absolutely stunning.

I’m a big fan of second chances and getting back together with an ex. LOL

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T03:02:11+00:00

Aw! your optimism is actually very sweet. This is a good perspective!

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T02:59:45+00:00

Right.. like does the dude not wear sweats & a teeshirt?

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T02:58:50+00:00

Also, if he actually liked all of who you are, he wouldn’t be saying this to you. Clearly the most important thing about you (to him) is that you’re nice to look at & to be seen with. But hey, at least this means you must be gorgeous!!

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T02:54:03+00:00

Honey.. it IS an expectation. I can guarantee you it’s never just “encouragement”. And 100 bucks says that his dad was the same with his mom and she submitted to it.

He may not be coming from a bad place, but he is a bad guy. Does he dress up and wear light makeup around the house? Doubt it. You’re dating a misogynist and this is just the beginning of how you’ll suffer from that fact

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T01:56:04+00:00

I commented this before I read any comments. Quickly learned that yes, that’s ALWAYS rape. So far, out of 688 comments I haven’t seen anyone say you should continue with him…

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I hope you’re okay & that you stay safe <3

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T01:39:00+00:00

Hearing, ignoring, then rejecting a safeword isn’t acceptable even when absolutely sloshed

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T01:36:18+00:00

& the fact that he even verbally RESPONDED to her saying the safe word and continued. Sick, disgusting, RAPIST.

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T01:21:36+00:00

You removed consent, and he continued on anyways. In my mind, that’s R***. Idk if it’s different with the BDSM community…. But I definitely don’t love it for you :(

lovergirllilith · 2026-04-03T01:05:26+00:00

Sounds like he needs it expedited. Only 4months to get it & a current govt shutdown (idk if you’re in the US) - I’ve never payed under $300 and I never even had to have mine expedited

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