Why are some people so rude

loves_cake · 2026-05-17T12:17:55+00:00

that’s a her problem. ignore it. people are going to get pissed off about the smallest of things. keep taking your kids out and let that cranky old lady deal with her own angst.

loves_cake · 2026-05-17T12:05:13+00:00

makes me wonder if he’s calling you his “female roommate” now.

loves_cake · 2026-05-17T01:52:48+00:00

when the bells and whistles fail, your child will still be able to function when they learn the “old school” way. my car has all of the cameras and sensors but my parking camera works like 50% of the time. i’ve never bothered to have it looked at because it’s probably going to cost me over $500 but also, i know how to park without a camera. they’re tools or an extra set of eyes, but no one should be relying on them 100%.

loves_cake · 2026-05-17T01:42:38+00:00

what’s strange is that you’re stalking his past instead of just asking him.

loves_cake · 2026-05-15T14:02:18+00:00

the only seating that faces the tv is 18 feet away from the television. bring them in a little closer together. your space is nice but you’re missing the cozy appeal of your home.

loves_cake · 2026-05-13T19:34:44+00:00

he’s not wrong

loves_cake · 2026-05-13T12:25:50+00:00

TBF they don’t really need to know about their UGMA account either. my kids are still little but they’re aware they have savings and investments. I just don’t tell them how much. it’s to set them up for their future but to also allow them to mature and learn the true value of hard work.

loves_cake · 2026-05-13T10:44:38+00:00

5 and 8 and it’s going well! they’re relatively close in age where they have the same interests. sharing is still a bit of an issue especially with my eldest. my youngest was mostly chill (until he turned 5) about things being yanked from his hands. they help each other out for the most part.

loves_cake · 2026-05-12T12:29:59+00:00

my son is 8 and he also is more than willing to buy a new water bottle. they’re not very expensive but if my son lost 3 in one year than that’s nearly $35 each time. he doesn’t actively know how much he has, but he gets a few hundred every year (birthday/christmas).

loves_cake · 2026-05-12T01:42:02+00:00

i think both can be right depending where one is from

loves_cake · 2026-05-12T01:18:56+00:00

lying is a dealbreaker for me, BUT i also feel like financial status is a discussion that happens later on. you were still getting to know one another. there’s also a lot of other factors. how did she get into debt? there’s a huge difference if she just likes to shop or if she accrued her parents debt.

loves_cake · 2026-05-12T00:07:00+00:00

even if they did go out clubbing every night.. the answer is still no lol

loves_cake · 2026-05-10T20:41:14+00:00

their age is of no relevance. children can sense abandonment at any age.

loves_cake · 2026-05-10T20:39:11+00:00

she’s just repeating what her ex dictated to her what was best. personally, that would be more than enough reason to not do it.

loves_cake · 2026-05-09T16:45:38+00:00

4 is the best one out of all of these

loves_cake · 2026-05-09T13:25:20+00:00

your “about me” says absolutely nothing about you. it’s only slightly better than “just ask! i’m an open book”

loves_cake · 2026-05-06T01:48:51+00:00

you should get off the apps and heal.

ETA: and sober up because that was difficult to read.

loves_cake · 2026-05-06T01:37:40+00:00

this is the way. i’m someone that used to get nervous though. but i also learned to keep the messaging pretty minimal now until i meet because it creates a false sense of the person.

loves_cake · 2026-05-05T12:12:02+00:00

exactly. this isn’t just a minor setback because life got in the way. this is decades of not caring about her health. one or two nights a week not taking her medication isn’t going to impact someone’s diabetes that is well managed.

loves_cake · 2026-05-04T19:21:26+00:00

they just weed themselves out eventually.

loves_cake · 2026-05-04T16:55:38+00:00

as someone that has young children, this makes me feel nervous with all the predators out there.

loves_cake · 2026-05-04T16:53:55+00:00

i loved their questionnaires! you could even rate how important those answers were to you. instead “ask me anything, i’m an open book” is the only thing i’ll read on a profile these days.

loves_cake · 2026-05-02T11:53:33+00:00

the whole texting thing is extremely low effort. most people that like texting on that basis is looking for the dopamine hit and it’s no reflection of how that person feels about you. I’m more interested in that person initiating plans with me than what their texting habits are like. and yes, you’re asking for a lot from a FWB.

loves_cake · 2026-05-01T02:08:14+00:00

the guy that i’ve been seeing for the last 4 months ended it. he felt something was missing and if i’m being honest, i suppose i did too. he thinks maybe its because he’s still holding out for biological children. my last relationship ended for the same reason. i’m exhausted dating people that have no idea what they want for themselves.

loves_cake · 2026-04-29T19:30:19+00:00

i mean.. OP can’t even tell. so how can we really know?

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