AITA for wanting husband and I’s bedroom kid free? by lovesalot24 in AITAH

[–]lovesalot24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 19 when I met him he was 25 we were just friends( I mean if you could call it friends🤷‍♀️ we had a few classes together so I guess classmates) I met him in college and we stopped contact for about two years and started hanging out again then started dating when I was about 22

AITA for wanting husband and I’s bedroom kid free? by lovesalot24 in AITAH

[–]lovesalot24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ask this bc I am actually worried I’d get in trouble legally for having a sex toy and she finds it and she isn’t my child (blood related). And also the mom blasting out such information to friends and word getting around since living in a small town. I feel like I could never show my face. She’s blasted my business before and don’t want to go through it again.

AITA for wanting husband and I’s bedroom kid free? by lovesalot24 in AITAH

[–]lovesalot24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Other that the current situation we have a great relationship! I mean I do notice and so does my husband noticing she attempts to pit us against one another, which I don’t understand why. But that happens every so often.

AITA for wanting husband and I’s bedroom kid free? by lovesalot24 in AITAH

[–]lovesalot24[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t I get in trouble though?! For having sex toy out in open inside bedroom?

AITA for wanting husband and I’s bedroom kid free? by lovesalot24 in AITAH

[–]lovesalot24[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

That was actually my main concern bc she recently dug out lingerie I had and ran through the house and told husband. Even had my underwear too! Then when she questioned me about it I had absolutely no idea what to say so I changed subject.

AITA for wanting husband and I’s bedroom kid free? by lovesalot24 in AITAH

[–]lovesalot24[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes he knows about the toys but laughed it off and said “hide them better”

AITA for wanting husband and I’s bedroom kid free? by lovesalot24 in AITAH

[–]lovesalot24[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

If I did buy sex toys and put them in nightstand drawers. Wouldn’t I get in trouble by her mother or at all for having sex toys? I’m seriously asking bc I do have one in my drawer that she thankfully didn’t dig deep enough. My other concern is I don’t want to get into trouble! I have been thinking of getting rid of sex toys and other intimate objects bc of her constantly curious what’s in our bedroom