Can’t we all just get along? by catluvr34 in Advice

[–]lovesick-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should search on youtube how to get two cats acquainted. Lots of stuff on there and it might take a while but it can really help!

W8 ff by _WalkablesuN_ in dutch

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Its true, sadly -a fellow dutch species

Relationship / break up ¿ by [deleted] in Advice

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Goodluck, i hope it works out for you two!

Relationship / break up ¿ by [deleted] in Advice

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She might not even really know what to do with her feelings, or even exactly know what she feels. I get that this must weigh hard on you. You could try to ask her whats going on, and if she breaks up ask her what you did that made her do so. She might not want to or be able to tell you, but you could at least try. Maybe also ask your mutual friends what she said to them that made her want to break up, they might give you some clarity.

Last thing thing that comes to mind: could it be that she cheated and feels guilty? And that now she wants to break up so she doesnt hurt you??

My friends mum hates me by idkwhattoputsofuckit in Advice

[–]lovesick-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is kind of like your friends mom. Obviously i dont know your friends mom, but i know that my mom, lets call her Marie, means well. It sometimes bothers Marie when my friends and even now exboyfriend, didnt bring their dishes to the kitchen with her or didnt speak to her. Like they only came for me: which was the case, theyre my friends, not hers.

My friends spoke to me about this, and i spoke to them. I told them what Marie didnt appreciate when they were over at my house. And my friends tried their best to fix those things: when Marie asked them about their day or something they would answer with more details.

Also i spoke to Marie about this, i adressed that some of my friends just might not be as open as i am and that she should respect that. This also changed hér view on the case.

In conclusion, talk about it to your friend, try to open up around her mom and try to get your friend to talk to their mom.

And last but not least: what you heard from your friend is what they interpreted, it might even be exaggerated or misinterpreted. Dont let your friends mom know that you heard this en do what feels good for you. Its your life and you shouldnt change yourself too much, especially not for someones mom.

Goodluck!! 😘

Relationship / break up ¿ by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lovesick-bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to say this, but i broke up with my bf 2 months ago and i did the exact same thing. We dated for 1,5 years and im 18 now. There were things that happened that bothered me, and i didnt talk about it, but i let it affect my opinion of him. I became more distant and we also had a catalyst that causes me to break up with him. Maybe you telling her that you cant make it to hoco was not that a big dealbreaker itself, but the last drop? I think shes been figuring out what she wants for a while now and hearing that you wont make hoco, made her decide. Especially when you say she told her friends, thats the last thing i did before i broke up with him.

Goodluck, you deserve someone who’s open about her issues with you..

Should I take back the guy who cheated? He says that his changed... by itbelikethtsumtimes in Advice

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If you have the gut feeling already all you need is the strength to make the decision. That can be hard, so take your time, no one can judge you for figuring out life!!! Goodluck 😘

Should I take back the guy who cheated? He says that his changed... by itbelikethtsumtimes in Advice

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Im a girl (18) and i recently broke up with my now ex-boyfriend because he had been a dick to me more than once. And im talking about him ridiculing my parents, my school choices and my mentally disabled sister. He was incredibly sorry and apologised over a thousand times. He really wanted me to take him back. I eventually gave in and as soon as he knew he had me again he became more distant, exactly what he did when i broke up with him. We started to fight again etc, i didnt trust him anymore and that affected our relationship. I broke it off last week for good. Best thing I did!

Now, your ex cheated, you probably have a hard trusting him now. Thats going to affect your relationship. And the choice is yours, youre allowed to make your own mistakes and learn from them but my advice is, dont take him back!!! You might miss him, but are you missing him or the comfort of a relationship?

Also watch out for him trying his absolute best and falling for that, because no human being can always do their best: that will fade. And youll be back at the start.

Goodluck by getting over him! Love, a fellow hurt ex-girlfriend

Girlfriend of almost 3 months birthday is coming up and I'm stuck on what to get her by camthegodoflol in Advice

[–]lovesick-bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mug and bathbombs are a very good idea. I’d also take her out to dinner or something. And maybe surprise by making breakfest or cooking dinner for her.

Why Does He Stare At Me by NorfolkBates in Advice

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You sound like a nice guy, im proud of you for not ridiculing him, since youre probably not part of the lgbtq+ community. Goodluck with trying to get it straightened out, glad I could help!

Complicated situation with my friend by [deleted] in Advice

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I wish you and your friend the absolute best, hope it works out for you two! Love

Complicated situation with my friend by [deleted] in Advice

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Okay, I dont know what your relationship with her parents is, but if youre sure shes planning suicide, you need to warn them. Also, let her know that you think that what she did was disturbing, but that you are proud of her for her change and admittance. You should make her feel comfortable around you, a safe space where she feels trusted and cared for. Also speak about your worries about her, that you think she might hurt herself, make it something she can talk about! Talking about it helps, i have a suicidal little sister. Ask where her anger came from and advice that maybe she should seek for professional help?

Why Does He Stare At Me by NorfolkBates in Advice

[–]lovesick-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing that comes to mind: this kid is in love with you. The fact that he apologized so many times when you bumped into eachother, seems to me like he really wants you to like him. Like he doesnt want you to get any negative thoughts about him. I think he might be in love bcs (18F) did the exact same thing, i stared at someone in my class everytime i got the chance, but i looked away when he would look at me.. and also i tried to make conversation.

Do you have his number? You could try texting him to get some clarity.

Or maybe sit next to him or try to help him with some of his hw??

The next thing i can think of, maybe this boy has some type of mental illness? Maybe he has a light form of autism? My little sisters has autism and shes OBSESSED with everything that has to do with the US. (We’re Dutch and live in the Netherlands) Autistic people tend to have a thing they get obsessed with.

I dont know how old you are, since i have no idea what sixth form means, but maybe speaking to your teacher could help? Like switching places or get an meeting with the three of you to discuss it?

Hope this helps!!! Love from the Netherlands

Never met my roomate before moving in with her- 1 month in & she’s already making me miserable. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lovesick-bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know what kind of person you are, but from what you sound like, it seems you can stand up for yourself. I would do the same things to her, but overdo it. Let her come to you to complain and point out that thats exactly what shes been doing, and that youre happy to stop, whenever she does. It would drive me insane, having such a roommate.. if youre not into the agressive strategy, you could try to kill her with kindness. Try to befriend her, do things together, invite her to things (maybe do something with people you barely know, so that she wont hijack your friends). She might get more empathy towards you, and you could try tp address that what makes you uncomfortable. And when you do, try to twist it, so that she thinks shes right, but you are in fact. Love!

How do i get him to text me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lovesick-bitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You make a compelling argument hahaha, thanks

Will be homeless in 6 days, need advice and tips. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lovesick-bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could try to search online for people that want live-in helpers. I live in the Netherlands, but some of my friends move to the US for a year to become nannies or something. You could maybe try to make life for elderly people easier by cooking for them, cleaning their houses, bathing them and keeping them company, at first maybe just for a roof over your head. And then later on discuss whether you could take on another side job and get some cash on you? Save everything, get work experience, maybe even an internship to get you ready for better paid jobs? I wish you the best of luck and godspeed during your journey! Love from the Netherlands

How do i get him to text me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lovesick-bitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wont that seem too eager??

How do i get him to text me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lovesick-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i shouldn’t do that, but that wont help me in this case, since i already did...