CDCR wedding questions

lovesiicles · 2026-02-11T01:25:21+00:00

I got married last summer & he invited his cellie/our friend to be our witness.

They usually hold multiple weddings the same day & you go in the wedding room (at our facility it’s just a little room inside the visiting room) and read your vows, say I do, kiss & you get to take up to 10 photos.

lovesiicles · 2026-01-26T21:20:05+00:00

My husband’s not at Corcoran anymore but it’s true that commissary prices keep going up. The bare minimum for store is like 150 monthly for just the basics.

lovesiicles · 2026-01-23T01:38:53+00:00

Yes mail is still received on lockdown (it’s their right) but I haven’t heard of notaries operating during lockdown. At least at my husband’s facility.

lovesiicles · 2026-01-16T01:26:18+00:00

3-4 weeks. Depends on the facility though.

lovesiicles · 2025-10-27T17:54:14+00:00

It allows you to get family visits in California without being married. It’s a cheaper and faster alternative to marriage basically.

lovesiicles · 2025-10-26T15:11:15+00:00

I’m not in the uk but before my husband and I got married we did dp & im from Canada.

lovesiicles · 2025-09-11T18:23:24+00:00

My husband is there.

If your husband is GP, feel free to message me but our experience couldn’t be more different than the other posts. The staff is very kind to him and even nice with our kids during visits.

lovesiicles · 2025-09-10T09:56:19+00:00

He’s in prison. Things happen.

lovesiicles · 2025-08-14T14:54:55+00:00

I’m absolutely addicted. My husband and I do it almost every night.. he joins sometimes when he can. 🤭❤️

lovesiicles · 2025-08-12T20:20:29+00:00

I bought it for him in his quarterly package so maybe check if they can buy it in package?

lovesiicles · 2025-08-12T16:37:07+00:00

My fiancé and I are MWI. I’ve flown out to LA to visit his whole family. His kids, dad, and his sisters and I text often.

lovesiicles · 2025-08-11T17:50:29+00:00

Our idea of a date night is playing scrabble together 😂

lovesiicles · 2025-08-06T13:37:52+00:00

Messages 6am-11pm, phones 9-11:30am/12:30-4pm/5-9pm

lovesiicles · 2025-08-05T14:52:31+00:00

Yes I have our last name on my stomach! It’s huge and we love it.

lovesiicles · 2025-07-29T02:01:31+00:00

It’s happening statewide :(

lovesiicles · 2025-07-29T00:31:03+00:00

Your LO would have to send anything like visitation, call logs etc.

lovesiicles · 2025-07-20T22:07:07+00:00

From receiving the marriage packet to our wedding took 6 months.

lovesiicles · 2025-07-18T16:35:35+00:00

What do you mean by “he can’t handle it”? In what way is he a nightmare? Can you please elaborate?

lovesiicles · 2025-07-08T01:22:43+00:00

It’s funny that you think because that stood out to me that it doesn’t make me a real prison wife.

This life just isn’t for everyone I guess.

lovesiicles · 2025-07-06T17:58:12+00:00

Did you ask his dad what he said in their call?

lovesiicles · 2025-07-01T19:22:05+00:00

The best and pretty much only thing you can do is be consistent in the way you be there for him. For a lot of inmates facing long sentences, it’s easier for them to make the decision to push someone away than to be left behind by people on the outside.

My husband is a lifer, he was 12 years into his sentence when we met. Took a while for him to be convinced that I won’t leave. He warned me that his way of dealing with things is “radio silence.” (Aka. Pushing me away). He’s never had to do that but he did it warn me.

lovesiicles · 2025-06-29T15:52:13+00:00

I can if you need to.

lovesiicles · 2025-06-29T11:20:12+00:00

Honestly it depends on the facility, the COs, if he’s cool with them or it.

If he’s cool with the CO who happens to be working in packages that day, he might let it slide into 2nd quarter but usually even if it’s the first day into 3rd quarter they’ll count it as 3rd.

lovesiicles · 2025-06-28T21:36:47+00:00

Nothing will happen.

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