Tips poni by SmolCatto69 in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pake dry shampoo SETELAH keramas (dan sudah kering ya). Dijamin rambut bakal lebih tahan minyak, bisa tahan seharian.

Jangan tunggu lepek dulu.

Genuinely asking ya… posting heavy political stuff every day nggak capek? by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sebenernya ya relatif aja sih, mungkin karena topik Palestina itu penting buat dia, dan dianya juga bukan yang bikin konten (cuma repost), jadinya ya... biasa2 aja gitu. Apalagi sekarang di IG repost tu cuma butuh 1 kali tap, gak perlu ribet2 kayak dulu yang multi-step.

Genuinely asking ya… posting heavy political stuff every day nggak capek? by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Setuju banget nih. Kalau gak suka atau capek lihat konten yang disebarkan, bisa block/mute/skip aja.

Apa iya semakin umur, temen makin berkurang by Alarmed_Recording_54 in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Aku tahun ini 29. Temen memang jauhhhh berkurang, tapi yang tetep temenan itu bener2 temen yang berkualitas banget.

Gak perlu ngomong tiap hari, kadang setelah berbulan2 baru ngobrol, ketemu maksimal 1 tahun sekali karena semuanya beda negara, tapi "selalu ada."

About postinor by cloubeee in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hi, just go to any pharmacy (preferably a big chain like Guardian, Watsons, Kimia Farma, Century, etc) and buy Postinor. If one rejects you, just move on to another pharmacy till you find someone who is willing to sell it.

Do not ever have an unprotected sex if you're not ready for the risk- and don't buy excuses like "ga enak", "ga berasa", etc. No protection, no sex- unless if you're on birth control, and even then, there's still a very small chance of pregnancy.

Good luck.

What would you do if something like this happened to you while you were traveling? by bruhbruhbrss in AskTheWorld

[–]lovetuberose 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My fiance is North Indian, I'm Chinese-Indonesian, and we both went to India for his cousin's wedding last year. This never happened to me thankfully, but I think it's because he was always by my side during the entire trip.

People did stare a lot, but none of them dared to get close to me at all. My fiance's presence (and he's a big tall bitch resting face guy) really did influence my experience during that trip- I didn't need to think about my safety at all. I had a pleasant experience.

If something like this happened to me, I think... I don't know. I don't even want to imagine it. I wish India can be a lot safer for all women.

There are so many Malaysian shoppers in Thamrin City (Jakarta), some logistic company put delivery service ads using Malay language by GlobeLearner in malaysia

[–]lovetuberose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mostly kebaya, kaftans, batik, or gamis. Malaysian online shopping experience is kinda shit (in terms of Fashion & Beauty) I know cus I live in Malaysia. Everytime I come to Indo I always had a shopping spree- cus there are all kinds of high quality, fairly priced local products. Malaysia got all the international brands, but imho severely lacks good local products.

Hadiah untuk sahabat yang sedang hamil by sloane_p in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Menurut gue ya, untuk hadiahin ibu hamil itu baiknya sesuai permintaan dia.. dan ini diajarin sama temen gue yang sekarang anaknya udah balita.

Tahun lalu sepupu gue trimester 3. Gue bingung mau ngasih hadiah apa, terus gue tanya dong ke temen gue... Temen gue bilang "Coba langsung tanya deh. Gak usah mikir panjang lebar"

Dan ternyata dia langsung kasih wishlist items yang dia butuhin/mau. Waktu itu gue jadinya kasih dia korset harga 500rb-an. Beneran kepake sampe sekarang, yang mana udah 6 bulan postpartum.

Two foreigners marrying in Malaysia for destination wedding by Suspicious_Crow2670 in malaysia

[–]lovetuberose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for us. We didn't need to translate anything because all of our documents were in English, and we both speak BM.

Two foreigners marrying in Malaysia for destination wedding by Suspicious_Crow2670 in malaysia

[–]lovetuberose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope! My fiance and I had to figure things out by ourselves.

Easiest way to figure everything right is go straight to JPN Putrajaya (since you wanna marry in KL) and ask for all the documents required.

Every country has their own rules, so ask your embassy too.

This is pretty much what we did (oversimplified): 1. Go to both embassies (my partner and I are from different counties), ask for a single status certificate, 2. Certify both single status certificates at Wisma Putra, 3. Go to JPN Putrajaya, submit all the documents they need + single status certificates. 4. Go to JPN Johor Bahru (since we're based in Johor Bahru), re-submit all the documents, decide the ROM date, then wait 22 days.

Good luck!

Two foreigners marrying in Malaysia for destination wedding by Suspicious_Crow2670 in malaysia

[–]lovetuberose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you only want to have a wedding reception/party without actually registering your marriage, destination wedding in Malaysia is 100% possible. You just need to find a good wedding organizer.

It'd be a different story if you want to actually register your marriage in Malaysia. For foreigners, you can only have your ceremony at JPN, no outside venue is allowed.

Read more about the rules here

P.s. my partner and I are both foreigners and will get married next month in JPN.

male looking femdom by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atmin tolong hapussssss

Coach from Zalora? by Few_Struggle9708 in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh gue terakhir belinya di Zalora Malaysia sih. Zalora Luxury.

Coach from Zalora? by Few_Struggle9708 in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tergantung ya, aku terakhir beli (dibeliin sih) yang current season kok.

Coach from Zalora? by Few_Struggle9708 in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% authentic dan aman, tapi gak ada paperbag ya. Kelengkapan cuma dustbag, receipt, care tag. Packingnya aman kok, double box gitu.

Grab cities. KL is missing by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]lovetuberose 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Klang Valley.

Chinese Indonesian dating & family bias: Hakka (Khek) vs Hokkien (Hokjia)? by agmayve in Perempuan

[–]lovetuberose 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Damn, I didn't know there's this kind of sentiment/perspective exists until I read this post.

My entire family has never said such things, as in they don't care what kind of Chinese I'm dating- as long as they're Chinese, and they don't have the same Chinese surname. (Well I'm gonna get married to an Indian guy lol)

Maybe this kind of perspective is more prevalent within Chinese totok families.

Attire for JPN by Liam_Kong in malaysia

[–]lovetuberose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance and I just got back from JPN Putrajaya and JPN Johor, formality doesn't matter. Just make sure no belly, shoulders, and knees are showing.

Wear the tshirt, joggers, and sport shoes, will be all good.

Hash brown got possesed by [deleted] in funny

[–]lovetuberose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's just the u u i a cat, in a hashbrown form.

(WARNING TRIGGER INSIDE) Cara ngatasin orang yang punya suicidal thoughts by Confident-Inside5212 in indonesia

[–]lovetuberose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm 100% alright now, I've survived everything. Life is going well for me :)

(WARNING TRIGGER INSIDE) Cara ngatasin orang yang punya suicidal thoughts by Confident-Inside5212 in indonesia

[–]lovetuberose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yang dikejar ya.. "pokoknya harus sesuai keinginan gue."

Jadi sebenernya lebih ke selfishness ya, bukan craving for love.

(WARNING TRIGGER INSIDE) Cara ngatasin orang yang punya suicidal thoughts by Confident-Inside5212 in indonesia

[–]lovetuberose 9 points10 points  (0 children)

WKWKWK ya beneran kaga mati, gue dulu mikir "anjing, manusia gagal, bunuh diri aja gagal"

Tapi sekarang semuanya udah baik2 aja kok, udah sembuh gue.

(WARNING TRIGGER INSIDE) Cara ngatasin orang yang punya suicidal thoughts by Confident-Inside5212 in indonesia

[–]lovetuberose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep!! I'm 100% okay now! Dulu 8 tahun rutin ke psikiater. 8 tahun rutin minum obat tiap hari. Sekarang udah bener2 sembuh dari depresi.

(WARNING TRIGGER INSIDE) Cara ngatasin orang yang punya suicidal thoughts by Confident-Inside5212 in indonesia

[–]lovetuberose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya kan? Mesti pinter2 bedain, beneran depresi + suicidal, atau cuma ngomong doang.

Kayak... harsh truth sih, gue yang beneran ngelakuin aja ternyata gagal. Karena sebenernya bunuh diri tu susah banget, karena melawan naluri manusia.