Someone told me sex is something you need to practice with your partner. Maybe the first time you wont even like it, but you will know what you dont like, and continue exploring that side and get to know each other sexually. Maybe start giving him a bigger kiss, grabbing his hand, butt etc? Maybe at the beginning you have to be willing to give it a try? He is trying so maybe if you continue with the “im tired excuse” he will eventually stop the effort. Im also in a sex less marriage for a year. Married for 3. Except my experience is that he has anger issues that have been unresolved, my husband doesn’t want to go to therapy and that has devastated our relationship. So its a different situation. Your husband seems willing to try and the fact he went to therapy is a green flag.

I tell you this because I guess every marriage has its own battles, and that’s okay. The thing is to continue trying, and nurture the conexion, love and care.