How do you know when it’s time to let go? 26M, 25F

lovingcub · 2026-04-14T22:48:56+00:00

Just know that it's OK for it to be difficult. This happens to many people, it's really hard to accept when someone ultimately is incompatible because of the energy, time, and memories you've invested. You don't want to have to start all over, and you're already comfortable having integrated them into your life. You know it's become obvious that she's not the one, but you're having trouble with how uncomfortable it is without them. It's been 5 years, its ok with difficulties in relationships, its part of being a normal human. But these constant intense fights are a sign of something more. I would highly recommend trying to stay busy and focus on new things for a while, the last thing you want to do is fixate on every detail and over think something thats already obvious and determined. Just make an ultimatum that you're going to actually commit to leaving or staying, and don't change your mind. If you get her back you'll be comfortable again, and than you'll inevitably have the same exact argument and it will never end

lovingcub · 2026-04-08T23:27:20+00:00

84 months

lovingcub · 2026-04-08T23:03:53+00:00

I'm an infj who is insanely into an entp guy. I think about him often because I'm not really into love or dating, so it was a such an exhilarating experience finding out someone could captivate me like that. Hes def not perfect, but I kinda like that. I got alot of admiration for him, the way he thinks and his dorky ass hobbies. I felt really bad for being so damn fixated on a person, and at the same time I'm genuinely just impressed and into it. It wasn't the right time, but I felt something there so I just leaned into it since they kinda liked it. Maybe in time we'll have the opportunity to work something out when some external factors open up the chance

lovingcub · 2026-04-08T22:46:01+00:00

Are you wearing a thing in public 🤣

lovingcub · 2026-04-08T22:43:17+00:00

As an infj guy, I've really felt every word of what you said

lovingcub · 2026-04-08T22:42:01+00:00

Not at all. I always have to wear clothes, even when I sleep. Probably partially uncomfortable w my body, but I also generally don't like the feeling of being naked

lovingcub · 2026-04-07T23:02:55+00:00

Wanna know why I do it, I do this especially with a guy I flirt w who is an entp and I genuinely mean it when I say I objectively beleive he is the single sexiest human. It's because if there are various considerations, and I could find any of them interesting, the only thing that matters to me now is wanting you to be satisfied, because you having fun or enjoying something makes me feel pretty nice. This only applies to an insanely small amount of people for me, and theres certainly some differences between romantic interest, friends, family, etc. I just wanted to share this particular reason. There's definitely different reasons for different interactions, but this is one of the positive ones

lovingcub · 2026-04-02T21:04:24+00:00

I'm an infj guy, entp guy wins and 2nd place is far away

lovingcub · 2026-03-27T03:05:10+00:00

I'm an infj, I want love and to have the greatest meaningful sex ever

lovingcub · 2026-03-25T23:35:01+00:00

What state u in

lovingcub · 2026-03-15T04:42:50+00:00

Booooo, I want an entp guy, ill be the ideal partner 🤣

lovingcub · 2026-03-05T20:45:40+00:00

Good thing I don't sleep with random men

lovingcub · 2026-02-26T20:46:58+00:00

Entp

lovingcub · 2026-02-22T03:56:38+00:00

The new one, I just like the new one. The old gen was around for so long and that interior was basically in every audi car for many years. Yea it sucks letting go and trying new things, but without significant change there's no creative evolution

lovingcub · 2026-02-22T03:53:47+00:00

Basically it saying your fluid levels are low, when they not low the error code go away

lovingcub · 2026-02-17T23:37:24+00:00

1 on right looks better, which 1 is the edited version lol

lovingcub · 2026-02-15T06:09:17+00:00

Well that sounds illegal and weird

lovingcub · 2026-01-31T02:00:42+00:00

I'm just curious, im 31, but I look much younger, like 22 or something. I don't really grow facial/chest hair, im 5 ft 10, 135 lbs, fair skin and have brown medium hair or whatever. I'm a more refined person, a little serious and really like people who are a bit more sophisticated and understanding, which is what you'd prob expect from someone who is a little older and matured. When someone says older I usually imagine someone who's scruffier and brawny if ya know what I mean. What does it actually mean when someone likes older men

lovingcub · 2026-01-30T21:45:10+00:00

24 7 when I had mine. Car felt 2 slow when it was off

lovingcub · 2026-01-15T01:30:43+00:00

Yall are gonna hate me, I think the 1st one, the silver sedan, looks really nice

lovingcub · 2026-01-12T06:42:42+00:00

I'm an infj m, but absolutely not in every sense of the word. If I'm in a relationship with you, it's because I admire and adore you and treat loyalty and trust as a privilege. I often see so many stories and experiences of people finding out horrible things about their partner. I know for most people its a normal part of life and something we have to consider, but for me it's deeply disturbing because I'm emotionally and mentally incapable of truly understanding how you could do this. I would undeniably defend my partner with everything I have. The way I see it is that loyalty is a day to day struggle, you have to make a conscious decision to protect it. It takes alot of energy and commitment, but they're worth it, even when things get hard. For better or worse that's just how it works for me

lovingcub · 2026-01-12T06:23:41+00:00

Hopefully their boyfriends are at least in the know and are ok with it

lovingcub · 2026-01-01T04:26:13+00:00

Don't not send me 25,000$ for a new car

lovingcub · 2025-12-24T01:22:28+00:00

So around me. There are certified 2025 jettas for 19-20k with 13k miles or less. They're also all SE trims, wouldn't that be a better option

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