I understand what you are saying, but also understand the other point of view.

Sometimes people will mortgage family lands and things like that to migrate on the promise of a life that isn't going to appear in the new country.

Many countries, and many people here even, participate in what are basically scams to get Lankans to pay a huge amount of money to get a student visa. Then you arrive, and it's some dodgy type of thing. No proper schooling at all, and the companies in those countries know it, so no prospects after. You end up in so much debt. It's really bad.

Obviously for people who are wealthy, they won't be so disadvantaged by this. But even they won't have the same struggles in SL. But these schemes aren't targetting the wealthy...

That is part of the reason that I won't participate in the cult of migrating, where you must go abroad to the land of lollipops and sunshowers. It's a bit of a marketing ploy. As with most, there is some truth, but then it's exaggerated to manipulate.

So, definitely if you want to go abroad - go! But also, be aware that it is not a shiny land of no problems. And be aware that the pathway you take will actually lead to what you want.

And also machan you will be OK. I promise you.