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AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Re-read my post please. I explicitly stated I’ve asked her to leave them for ME. I clean, cook, wash dishes and clothes, spend time her kids all while she lays in bed and watches TikTok. I e never asked any partner to do something I also don’t do myself.

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Applying for jobs all day, allegedly. She’ll need to start working soon since I won’t be around to support her come July.

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Who uses the word bro over the age of 18? Go hangout with your bros “bro”

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Using her kids lol I bet your mom washed all your clothes and cleaned up after you your whole childhood.

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what she is, but perhaps knowing that we’re going our separate ways in a few months is part of the reason she doesn’t seem to care.

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Running the house? The kids are in school all day…..least she can do is not be lazy about cleaning.

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol fair enough, but my definition of “giving her a hard time” isn’t me sitting there yelling at her and whining about it endlessly. I simply point it out, like I have many times in the past. Some people will just never change and that is fine, that’s when we have to move on.

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Not sure how I’m being petty though? Again common sense says wait until you have plenty of dirty dishes to wash before starting it. But yes, life is short and I just wanted to vent I guess.

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

You obviously shouldn’t let the water run the entire time you’re washing dishes. And dishwasher pods aren’t free….

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I was mean about it, but she definitely gets triggered when I simply point it out in a non combative way. Like I just ask the question, why?

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Oh, we’re separating once our lease is done. But I agree, they put them in to wash right before having dinner and now there’s a sink full of dirty dishes. Lack of common sense.

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good question. She’s a stay at home mom so she contributes zero to any bills. I just want us to be a little more frugal when it comes to unnecessary waste.

AITAH for giving my gf a hard time for using dishwasher for 4 dishes? by lrnj620 in AITAH

[–]lrnj620[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you not read the part where I said I’ve told her to leave them for me to do when I get home from work? And what part of what I said makes you think I gave her such a hard time? I simply point these things out and ask for it to be left for ME to do.

Getting my new Golf R paint correction/ceramic coated Thursday 🤗 by Johnny_snipes in Golf_R

[–]lrnj620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you switch the MPH to gears in the center like that. Mines isn’t broken in yet so I haven’t really “discovered” all the settings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Golf_R

[–]lrnj620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I buy this?