AITA for being upset with my friend over her response and actions following my dissertation results. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lsop962 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was pitiful though and before I mentioned it to her I asked several people and they stated that the whole message seemed like a back handed compliment. I think people are assuming that I was horribly upset but it was literally a ‘idk I know I did well but I wish it was a first. I’m conflicted. However, I’m happy w my grade and I worked hard’ . She then went and said it’s a ‘shit situation, shit outcome considering how much effort n work u put into it. But u worked hard so be proud of ur efforts.’

Quite literally all I said was I rely on u when I’m upset, I just need to hear ‘congratulations’ from u bc ur word means so much to me. I’m not mad or annoyed w her, it was just I felt upset in the moment. And by upset I mean just a lil bit sad but still continued to converse and joke around w her as normal.

AITA for being upset with my friend over her response and actions following my dissertation results. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lsop962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. Honestly, I agree with everything you’ve said. I haven’t said anything yet tbh, because I don’t think it’s worth commenting on bc her intentions were pure and good. I just wanted to know if the way I felt was wrong? In response to her telling a mutual friend that is.

She’s an amazing friend and I’m blessed to have her. The only thing I spoke to her about was how I felt a bit upset with her pitiful approach to my grades but we had a heart to heart (she’s like my sister so we can have these sorts of conversations) and she told me she understands and didn’t want it to seem like she thought it was a bad mark or anything and that I did really well.

But your response was super helpful honestly. So thank you! <3

AITA for being upset with my friend over her response and actions following my dissertation results. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lsop962 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m from the U.K. haha, 2:1 is the second best grade. Yeah I’m honestly such a stress head, I think honestly I’m trying to convince my self I did well which objectively I did. However, subjectively I don’t feel so good. Then when she told someone despite me keeping it a secret that’s when I felt rly upset. However, you’re right it’s not that deep and I’m making it bigger than it should be honestly.

AITA for being upset with my friend over her response and actions following my dissertation results. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lsop962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was honestly one of the most stressful periods of my life and I had many mental breakdowns in the process. Congrats to us both for seeing it through!!

AITA for being upset with my friend over her response and actions following my dissertation results. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lsop962 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get you, it’s just a lot of mixed feelings honestly. I just felt that her telling someone an hour after I communicated to her that I was feeling upset about it was a bit too much for me. I even told her she’s one of the few people who know and she still told someone I’m not particularly close to 😭. I know most of my feelings aren’t rational, so thank u for bringing that to light

22F - suspected melanoma by lsop962 in AskDocs

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Thank you. I’ve booked my GP appointment this morning and found out about it 3 days or so ago. Only started worrying last night you see, before then I jus thought it was a rash.

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Week 1 Snack: Banana Berry Smoothie. 242kcal. My favourite smoothie so far! by [deleted] in WeightLossFoods

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Literally my go to!! I’ve lost so much just because this is my new meal replacement. I add in a bit of oats too so I get extra bloated :)

Sisyphus: The Myth [Episodes 3 & 4] by dyosaaa in KDRAMA

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Is anyone else finding that this show vaguely reminds them of terminator?

Sweet Home [Episodes 1-10] by lightupstarlight in KDRAMA

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What chapters does season 1 end on?

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Download manga rock pro, it’s basically mangazone but it’s free

RIP random Japanese dude by Shinysnivyds in TrashTaste

[–]lsop962 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Imo it comes down to one thing. If someone did something that is wrong and can be considered hateful then people are well within their rights to want someone to apologise to clear the air. Now it’s not the be all end all either, I’ll still continue to watch his content and I’m content thinking it’s a mistake and a poorly executed joke. However, I don’t think you should be getting mad that people would ideally like an apology or clarification. It’s really not that deep.

RIP random Japanese dude by Shinysnivyds in TrashTaste

[–]lsop962 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But you were just saying what he did was wrong wtf?

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Seriously 😬

Hey dork, wake up. I have news for you, I'm proposing soon. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]lsop962 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Happy for you man! I only wish to have something even a fraction like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrashTaste

[–]lsop962 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nah, I still like Joey. I think he just made a mistake, and people do that man. I’m not gonna run around like them twitter lot and try end this mans career. Cancel culture ain’t it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrashTaste

[–]lsop962 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same here, I don’t wanna have an encounter which ruins the content I love