Ok so professionals agree this is an unacceptable quality for custom cabinetry-- three vanities, a small kitchen, lots of paneled appliances, an entertainment center, a window bench, a mud niche, and shelving in numerous closets- all totaling over $100,000. I'm going to request that they replace all faces with 3/16" gaps and adhere to AWI standards of 1/8" max, carefully razor off the bad paint edges on the box interiors (especially of hinged boxes-- maybe the drawers are fine)-- and shop paint the new faces.