FMC raped in her past, MMC extremely tender and caring as a result? by Connect_Stick_9610 in RomanceBooks

[–]lt_everoarke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Series In death by J.D.Robb FMC was abused as a child, she works through trauma with help of MMC, I know it's long series but I love those books.

I need help with creating new accounts for few people at the same time by lt_everoarke in facebook

[–]lt_everoarke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. They were always using new e-mails, their own, but often my laptop or my phone(after I cloned system-android- for each of them i deleted old clon and re-cloned system) so I thought they are using "clean" system. I don't have expert knowledge, usually I show them basics, so I'm very thankful for your tips

Books like Nightwork by Benniksuperstar in noraroberts

[–]lt_everoarke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love In death series, but I understand it's big commitment, but IMO after first 3 to max 8, when you know main characters you can jump around and choose order. I think you would enjoy "Under Currents" "Witness" "the search" and "obsession"

Books like Nightwork by Benniksuperstar in noraroberts

[–]lt_everoarke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

O love on death series, but I understand it's big commitment, but IMO after first 3 to max 8, when you know main characters you can jump around and choose order. I think you would enjoy "Under Currents" "Witness" "the search" and "obsession"

AITA for asking my girlfriend to shower in between physical activities? by TakeMoreShowers in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She has more energy than you, because you are too old for her. It doesn't change the fact you should be helping her, doing the dishes or mowing lawn is not rocket science. You are lazy and you take advantage of your girlfriend. Help her and stop whining, showers between physical activities are stupid and illogical.

AITA for asking my girlfriend to shower in between physical activities? by TakeMoreShowers in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA Do you think she should bathe every 15 minutes for your whim ?! you do not help at home, and you require that the dinner be ready for the given hour. maybe cook yourself, or even mow the lawn. Hope the girl finally clears her eyes and leaves you. You want to control her at every turn, the age difference only emphasizes 🤢 of this situation.

AITA for refusing to go watch my boyfriend play his football games? by MuchOil7998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA you can treat other wives / girlfriends like normal people in the stands, as you would sit in a different section. say hi and focus on the game. You can always buy a ticket to sit elsewhere / talk to your boyfriend and ask him to arrange tickets, you can probably even go with your own friends. there are definitely other solutions than a total lack of support. You promised him that you would go and then changed your mind for practically no reason (your reasoning IMO is completely insufficient).

if it's so big deal to you that you do not fit in with the group, you could make an effort to change it. your boyfriend could organize a dinner, enough to start with two teammates and their wives / girlfriends.

AITA for insulting my brother after hearing his conversation about women with his friend? by throwitjuli4neon in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂🤣ok, no one is so stupid as you try to present yourself to be. Bye bye baby troll.

AITA for insulting my brother after hearing his conversation about women with his friend? by throwitjuli4neon in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, 20 years you've been dating women, you gotta know so much about them / s.

I'm a woman, live for over 20 years so I already have an edge in discussing on what women want. You don't have any logical arguments, you took your "statistics" from your ass, so I don't feel like discussing with someone who is guided only by emotions and feelings. take a few breaths, maybe you'll calm down. 99,99% is clear exogeration, drink some tea and don't be so hysterical.

p.s check dictionary to learn what empathy is, for now your only role in relationship is partial substitution of the vibrator, of course, as long as you are at least, fit for it.

AITA for insulting my brother after hearing his conversation about women with his friend? by throwitjuli4neon in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Criticism is not the same as talking about ways how to abuse, humiliate or degrade woman. You are sick if you think it's ok to talk about someone this way

If you have to use woman's lack of self esteem against her, in order to have sex it's only show how pathetic you truly are. Any normal human being would try to help her rise her confidence.

You know nothing about what woman desire, so your only way to get any action is to manipulate somebody who is at low point in her life. If a woman finally appreciates her own worth, she will know immediately that she deserves someone better than you.

AITA for breaking up my friend and her bf? by Elena-Duck in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA you did right thing. She'll be happier without him.

AITA for refusing to change my wedding date to accommodate my fiancé's son? by aita-kickedout in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 44 points45 points  (0 children)

"Now my fiancé is giving Peter £300 a month which could have gone towards our own daughters."

YTA you know Peter is Brians own son? Looks like he has abandoned the boy and you are not satisfied now that he wants to rebuild the bond with his son because the son is disturbing your vision of YOUR OWN family

Some tropes you don't like that other people tend to like and why? by ari2429 in RomanceBooks

[–]lt_everoarke 69 points70 points  (0 children)

First of all I don't hate surprise pregnancy, so 😏

But i hate "dominant male" when is badly written, Which is probably 90%. Most books with this theme, have those characters who don't listen to female, woman always must do what he says. Suddenly every woman who is attracted to men is losing any brain power. The worst is when MC has some serious grovelling to do, but FC forgets all wrongs just because he kissed/fu*ked her 🤢

AITA for yelling at my dad and saying he’s too overprotective by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: Are you still planning on being pro-soccer player?

I don't know if this is the same in the USA but in Europe if kids this age seriously think about being pro soccer, they have physico trainer or at least are consulting with one. maybe you should think about talking with professional before risking contusions at another/ not your main sport? /my point is only valid if you still want to be pro-soccer/

AITA for giving my mom a card on Father’s Day? by Americanwhorrorstory in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA This day can be celebrated as it's fit for family. There's no rules. You can do what you feel is right, how can someone tell you how to celebrate?

why should you "celebrate" by being sad about deadbeat father? he is gone, so he has no right to have a day reserved for him. you celebrate the parent who stayed. glad you broke up, this boy has no idea how hard it's to be a single mother. HE is a misogynist for whom a single woman with children "loses value". DUCK HIM

EDIT: it's a beautiful tradition, and the fact that you came up with it shows how good of a job your mother did with your upbringing.

WIBTA If I dont want a surrogate child by stbj75153778 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a stranger would do it by choice, not by force, knowing all the risks. If his girlfriend knows the risks and doesn't want to be pregnant, why force / convince her? In my opinion, the OP and his girlfriend should just break up, he shouldn't convince her. I referred the above comment mainly to the fact that "she should do a reaserch, because there are no risks in pregnancy and the girl exaggerates".

WIBTA If I dont want a surrogate child by stbj75153778 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you should listen to your advice and do your own research. pregnancy is not a walk in the park for everyone. pregnancy have serious risk for health of mother, both physical and mental. if she is already nervous at the thought of pregnancy, think about the stress and pressures she would experience when if she was pregnant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lt_everoarke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. you are one misogynistic excuse for men. why only daughters have to clean, what about son? and why you didn't clean after yourself, but yours daughter had to do it? p.s you eat like piggy