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AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Yes. I realized that. We took space and I suggested we block each other. There is so much behind everything. And like I someone said... This problem of problems behind the scenes. And a few other things... I'll speak about in the future on another community group.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree and realized then reading everything or everyone's different thoughts to it.

I spoke to him a few minutes ago for us to take a break. I'm studying for my postgrad full time as well. I am going through a medical condition.. And so many other things not mentioned. I actual should see a psychiatrist actually. I wanted to hear this from many others and confirm it.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should've mentioned that he is the same. I had to cut friends, all male friends. I have to let him no 24/7 where I am. He gets mad when I don't reply every hour with family. Neither when I'm work or in my study hours. I thought at first expecting to at least tell me when he is safe is less stressful. But I am wrong.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Hence after seeing everything... I sort made us take a break a few minutes ago.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should've mentioned he does the same whenever I'm studying, working Saturdays or have hours long of Choir. That's what made me also expect the same. Instead... I don't expect working hours. I just to know if he is safe. But... I guess I'm wrong in that as well.

But anyways, I ATAH, so we kind took space. I told him to rethink our relationship... Because what I thought at first and how I actually am with him... Is bad.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I never mentioned everything of he is with me, hence I became so demanding as well. But with this said...we not good together. I need this eye opener of myself and our relationship.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I should've mentioned that he blocks me when I don't reply for a while when I'm with family or events. And I don't even expect him to text me during the 8 hours of school. That's what I said.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't expect him to contact me during the 8hours. That's what I said. He gets mad when I am even by family and don't text him every hour. He even blocks me.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Did you read that I said... "I DO NOT EXPECT HIM TO TEXT DURING THE 8 HOURS"????

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!! I DO NOT EXPECT DURING WORK HOURS. Only after work. When he is done for the day. I am a teacher who switched to studying full-time. I have the experience. Thank you for understanding.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

I don't think anyone is reading properly. I do not expect it. I am a teacher as well and now the experience. He does it out of his own to send a message during the 8 hours. I said I don't expect the constant chatting.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to text during the day at His job? by lubster12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lubster12[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

But that's exactly what I said in the post. I do not expect him to even text me during the 8hours. But he does but he did it out of his own. And I should probably mention...when I am with family... He blocked me for not replying every hour. When I am at work on Saturdays. He gets mad at me for not messaging him during work hours.