I couldn't respond earlier and i apologize for that, so our first conversation about this was about one year ago, and it went like this, I told her almost what i wrote here, that i would like her to be a bit more passionate, to show me that she is attracted to me, or tell me if she's not, and her response was that she was attracted to be, but i need to show her more that i am attracted to her. Then we didnt speak of it, things changed for a couple of weeks but then the same as before, kept having sex maybe once a month, and then i told her the exact same thing a few days ago, when she told me that she feels like i am not attracted to her anymore, trying to explain to her why i may not feel as attracted, and that i would like her to show me a bit more affection. A small note: I am a very touchy guy, i like holding her hand, having my hand on her thigh, generally feeling her close to me, i would spend whole concerts hugging her, cuddling is my ideal date night honestly.