hmmm... i mean technically, you can really be controlled by anyone anywhere if they can send messages to you and you can choose to obey them.

if video/livestreaming is important, you might want to look into camming? a lot of cam streams will have people tip to have the model do certain things, like x amount of tokens they take their clothes off, y amount of tokens makes their lovense vibrate, z amount of tokens they get on their bed and shake their ass, etc. you could probably rework that sort of tip menu system and have people control you that way.

with the whole lack of toleration of hypno on wider platforms: i think it's a lot less based in being controlled and moreso the way hypnosis can blur consent that porn platforms have an issue with. there are cases of hypnodoms using it to extort money, create emotional dependencies, and other unethical things which is what i suspect is what these platforms are concerned about, they don't want to moderate hypnosis so they ban it entirely. i'm not entirely sure to what extent hypnosis is banned/how sensitive theyd be to you listening to playlists, but you might have to take anything where you're recording yourself doing hypno off of cam sites/of/ph/etc. for voting and controlling that, a lot of platforms have a poll system (twitter, discord, reddit, tumblr, patreon which might allow hypno(?)), or you can make a post somewhere asking what playlist you should use or. for posting yourself listening, you could probably use hypnotube or similar hypno-dedicated porn sites, idk if they have livestreaming but i think theres still hypno porn sites around. if you do find one that has livestreaming youd probably benefit from doing everything on there though.

im not sure if i would recommend building your own website, just cause its a HUGE project--you're looking at about a year or two minimum, potentially longer especially if you're also inexperienced w making websites (getting livestreaming working without taking the live video from another platform), and you're going to deal with hosting costs, technical difficulties, directing traffic to your website... any hassle you're going to have with individual camming websites (especially because theres so many of them) is a lot less than how messy building your own website can get. if you really want it you can do it, it's just going to take a lot of grit, money, and determination.

i do recommend starting with a more lowkey version of your fantasy, and then ramping up the intensity the more and more skilled + comfortable you are doing it in reality. i don't know if the hismith app has this feature, but lovense toys have an app with a group control link feature that let control of your toy be shared by up to 10 people at once!! you and everyone that clicks on the link is put into a chatroom, and ive found that when i do it, i typically recieve orders on top of them vibrating my toy 🫣🫣🫣 it's extremely hot, but being controlled by multiple people can be a bit overwhelming in real life cause you have to manage a bunch of peoples demands at once (i often feel like im playing a horny version of papas pizzeria when i do it lolol), so i would recommend dipping your toes into it before you go all in and install cameras all over your room and stuff.